My ethnicity is | Black/White/Latino/Mixed... |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | CreoleLady01, Woman, 45 |
Location | Houston, Texas, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 49, Black/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Latino/Mixed... |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
About me...
I am mommy to three amazing kids, that are my world. I get pure joy spending time cwith them and my extended family. I have been told I am a sweetheart, genuinely nice, sweet, good person. (Don't get me wrong... Piss me off like anyone else you will see my Sasha Fierce) I have a kind heart and always caring and doing for others. I am a simple old fashion kind of girl. I was married for 10 years and enjoyed the "married" life. Having someone to take care of... I am not the type of girl always going out, putting her kids off on other people, constantly seeing in the bar and in the streets. I am that person that likes to be home, and cook. Get out and have a good time on occasion. I love enjoying a good movie.
As you can see by my screen name I am Creole. I am mixed with Black, French, Spanish and Indian. People always ask who is Black in my family. I don't know. Both of my parents are mixed, all my grandparents are mixed, all my great grandparents are mixed. Just one big mixing pot!
I like to be upfront about my status... I was married for 10 years, separated from my ex back in May 2013. Filed for divorce in October, and just waiting for everything to be finalized.
I am by no means PERFECT!! None of us are, so I am going to be real and tell you things most women don't:
- I am not a morning person. Best to keep conversation to the bare minimum before I had my coffee
- Sometimes my mouth says things, that my brain thinks, but knows it should not say
- I (like most women) still trying to lose some of that baby weight... But hey... I am trying.
- I can be a super sweet submissive person, but if you KEEP pissing me off... I may explode
- I hate folding socks, and only do so when my boys complain they have none left.
- I can be a brat... I like attention. And when I dont get it, you may see my lip poked out.
I am looking for
I am not looking to fall head over heels in love at lightning speed. I want a friend first. I am looking for a best friend. Someone I can't wait to share my day with. Look forward to spending time with him. Look forward to hearing his voice. Comfortable to talk to him and know I can tell him any and everything. Someone that will love my good qualities, and accept my flaws. Who will listen to me and smile when I get in my talkative moods, and understand when I have something on my mind I am quiet I need my space. Someone that wants to treat me like a Princess, because he knows I am going to make him feel like a King!!!
I want a REAL MAN!!! Someone that knows how to be masculine, and take care of his woman, and business. But knows how to curl up on that couch with her and cuddle and be soft and tender when she needs it. Someone I know that has my back, and will defend and protect me. Someone that will have just as much fun having drinks and dancing with me in the club, as he would joking with me in the kitchen as we prepare dinner. Chasing each other around the kitchen table. Someone that's just as comfortable joining me at a nice restaurant all jazzed up, or a hole in the wall kicked back having a good time. When he has a bad day, he comes home and shares it with me. Just as I would him. Someone I would find a note in the car in the morning telling me he loves me, or even a text out the blue during the day. Someone who is confident that he has an attractive woman on his hands, and not insecure because he knows she has eyes for no one but him.
If you think that's you... Send me a message. IF you just like what you see, and know you are not the one for me or geographically right for me... Then I appreciate the flirt!!:)
Being real... Long distance won't work for me. I appreciate the love, flirts and all. But being realistic it will be hard for a long distance relationship to work for me.