My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Doc012, Man, 49 |
Location | Schaumburg, Illinois, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 38 - 50, Black/Mixed/Other |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
HER: Proverbs 31
HIM: Ephesians 5:25
I've said before that I'm an over-educated, under-medicated, modern day antique. I've been told that I have a good sense of humor, and a strong, creative side. I've done a fair bit of traveling, and I've had some very good red wine. It would be nice to share these things however with a lovely companion who enriches my life. I'm confident that I'm a catch for someone out there, and I'd very much like to meet her. The geographic distance that may lie between us will hopefully be a non-issue.
I'd really like to find "HER" - the woman who is my inspiration. She ignites in me my innate desire to be the protector, provider, friend, husband, lover, and travel companion that I desire to be. I would think that a good man and a good woman both seek similar qualities in their mate - one who is spiritually compatible, emotionally available and physically passionate (hat trick). She makes the mundane magical, and waking in the morning and retiring in the evening are the romantic bookends to the amazing chapter that was our day.
I don't want to scare off a potential mate, but in the interest of transparency, I should be clear. I am looking to date with a purpose. I would like to date a woman who ultimately desires the same thing I do: marriage with a Christian spouse. The journey getting to that destination will hopefully be a fantastic adventure with a storybook ending.
I appreciate all likes and messages, but I will not respond to every message I receive. Please understand that no response simply means that I don't think we're a match. Thank you in advance for your understanding, and I wish you only the best.)
I am looking for
Basically, I'm looking for a needle in a haystack. I hope whoever is reading this doesn't mind blunt, because here it is...
FAITH - I am looking for a woman who has a Biblical worldview which shapes her behavior. If you think that Biblical means "boring", then you clearly don't know the Bible. She embraces her Christian identity and would hopefully love only God more than me... WAY more than me.
APPRECIATION - I want my future spouse to think to herself, "I married a great guy." I want her to know that she is loved, romanced, provided for, and protected. I want her to appreciate those things. She doesn't just take me for granted. She tells me how I make her feel. She shows me how loved she feels. She tries in her own ways to reciprocate that love.
MARRIAGE - I am not seeking a fling. I want a companion with whom I can walk through this world. Probably a lot of men (and women) claim this, but how many actually mean it? I mean it. I seek substance, not the superficial.
PASSION- This is an expression of love that, in this life, can only be enjoyed between husband and wife. It should be important to a married couple, and it’s important for a couple to have compatible libidos. Would you rather marry someone who is a 10 in the looks department, but only a 6 in the passion department, or would you rather marry someone who is a 6 in the looks department, but a 10 in the passion department? I think I would much prefer the latter. Passion matters, and we should leave one another completely satisfied… wanting for nothing.
CHILDREN - My future spouse may have children or grandchildren already. Fantastic. I would readily be with a woman who has kids, or doesn't have kids. I, however, at my age am not inclined to have children of my own, nor am I inclined to foster nor adopt. I think that there are LOTS of ways that we could help children, work with children, etc. without having children of our own. I don't think I'm prepared to drive my young son or daughter to their first day of college when I'm already a senior citizen.
Like I said ... a needle in a haystack.