A man's man. No pushovers please. Someone who knows what he wants and has no problem articulating what that may be! Someone that is spiritual and has some foundation of religion. No clingers please! Get some friends. Self motivator who goes out and makes things happen for himself. A man with a strong work ethic is an absolute turn-on for me! Self-confidence and a sense of pride in one's appearance is also a plus. A grown man NOT looking for a MOTHER!!! I raised my kids and not looking to foster or adopt any body else's. Also, if you get brochures from AARP asking you to be a member, keep it moving, I'm not the one! I feel I needed to come back to this section and add this, prefer a guy that is familiar w/ the swirl and all that entails.