My ethnicity is | Black/Native American |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Fun_smart, Woman, 45 |
Location | Detroit, Michigan, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 24 - 45, White/Latino/Mixed... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black/Native American |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
In a nutshell, since some of you don't like to read: I'm a Christian, very smart, fun, affectionate, kind-hearted, active, passionate, and very family-oriented and faithful. I consider myself a good person and have a very good heart. For fitness, I enjoy playing tennis and basketball, swimming, pilates, pole dancing (for fitness not income, lol), bike riding and taking long walks/hikes. I definitely enjoy the finer things in life but also appreciate the simple things, like my son's smile, a lover's touch, a summer breeze, and I enjoy the company of my loved ones. I am fiercely loyal and strong-minded. I stand up for myself and for others and those things in which I believe. I am a criminal defense attorney and love my job and I'm very good at it. However, I also love learning. I am planning on returning to school to get another degree in an accelerated program in the near future. I'm currently taking alot of exams in subjects ranging from pathophysiology and pharmacology to nutrition and psychology, which have left me a bit busy, so countless emails back and forth do not work for me, as I tend to lose interest pretty quickly. I'm fairly laid-back, but I have alot going on and sometimes forget to have fun. I don't have a specific type but I definitely appreciate a man who takes care of his body (code for have a hot body), leads an active life, loves to travel, knows how to smile, and is fun to be around. I want someone who makes me laugh when we are together and smile at the thought of him when we are apart. Also, I love children and I am a great mom to one beautiful child. If you have kids that's fine, but if you don't want children or want more children, skip my profile because I want another child or two and so should the man in my life. Bonus points if you love (or can at least tolerate) monster truck shows. My son loves them but his mother does not, lol.
If you are over 45, overweight, or otherwise not a great specimen of manhood, I don't think we are compatible. I bring alot to the table and want the same in return. Attraction=intimacy. I'll leave it at that. Also, I'm not looking for casual dates, hook-ups or just sex and before anyone asks again, no, I don't want to see you play with yourself on webcam. Thanks, I'm good. Ok, those are the highlights. Read on if you want more detailed info. Good luck to everyone.
First and foremost, I really like to laugh and have fun. I have a great sense of humor and try not to take anything, including myself, too seriously. Life is too short not to enjoy as much of it as we can. I'm all about the spirit of adventure and taking time out to smell the proverbial roses. I just want to be happy and find the right man with whom to share life's experiences.
I have been described as "warm", "thoroughly charming", and "affable" (look it up, lol). I don't disagree, but no one is perfect, though I am very close to it, lol. I'm also funny, kind, a bit sarcastic at times, energetic, athletic, sensual, intelligent and fairly laid-back and easy-going, but I definitely have a passionate and wild side. My hard partying days are behind me, and I've never been a big drinker, but I do know how to have a very good time. If we're together, you will too!!!
I do not believe in false modesty. I'm frequently told that I'm very pretty, but it hasn't helped me find love, so there you go. I'm tall, slim and just have model look. At work people always tell me that I should be modeling somewhere. I also get hit on a lot but I'm not looking for dates. I want a relationship and I'm very picky, maybe too picky but it is what it is. I'm 5'9" and weigh about 135 pounds (that's a size 2 or 4 for those in the know). I am a former model and am still about the same size. I'm told that I still look the same. I attribute that to good genes (mom was a model, too), healthy eating, and clean living.
I'm also very close to my family and we get together fairly often. I attend church regularly and until recently, taught Sunday school, and I am a former literacy tutor and volunteer at a local hospital in the newborn nursery, when time allows.
Besides being nurturing and compassionate, I am also very affectionate and I'm a great kisser. I love to travel, shop, and meet up with friends. I also enjoy live theater, wine-tasting, doreign travle (spent a summer in Italy) plays, and art exhibits, as well as staying in and watching a movie with that special someone. I am a fair weather fan of the local sports teams, and as a former Wolverine and band member, I enjoy U of M football (Go Blue!). I also like photography, and I'm learning the guitar and recently learned how to play golf, then just as quickly, gave it up. True to my upbringining, I am also very good at bowling and shooting pool.
Anything else, just ask.
I am looking for
True love.
I am attracted to attractive men, and I don't like drama. I get plenty of that at work. I am ready to settle down with the love of my life. He is successful, intelligent, ambitious, patient, honest, moral, has a degree or is otherwise gainfully or professionally employed and financially stable, SEXY, kind, fun, physically attractive, tall, physically FIT, loves to travel, and is ready for a commitment. I bring all of this to the table, plus more.
I have learned that younger men are attracted to me, so it's very likely that my husband may be younger than me, around my age, or slightly older. So anyone 45 and younger is likely the best fit. I really don't find myself being attracted to men in their 50's so don't waste your time if that's you. I also tend to prefer college educated, professional men/business owner,/entrpreneurs, not really attracted to the thug mentality or a body covered in tats. It's just not my cup of tea, but I'm definietly not judging anyone's lifestyle choices, so save the hatemail. Some men prefer thicker women, I'm not mad at you. I'm thin and plan on staying thin. We all know what we like and don't like. It's just about preferences.
Also he MUST have a good heart, love God, and want to have children and should live an active, healthy lifestyle. I have a child who is a blessing and my world. I love my child and cherish my role as a parent. I am only interested in meeting someone who can be a loving, fun, energetic, and positive role model who will make a positive contribution and addition to my child's life.
Hopefully that covers it. Blessings to all and good luck in your search.