My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Happ11, Woman, 40 |
Location | Tuscaloosa, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 34 - 46, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm just your average chick; only not really. I tend to make friends fairly easily. My closest friends say it's because I'll talk to a brick wall. Honestly, I just really enjoy getting to know people. I value others' experiences and I try to allow my relationships to open me up and, you know, help me blossom and shit.
I'm a single parent to an awesome 9 year old. Trust me, she's a character. I never thought the words "I love you Mommy" would turn me into a teary-eyed mess. But, I tell you...it's just something about this kid.
**NECESSARY PROCLAMATION**
If you have ANY reservations about children, DO NOT contact/like/ me. Reservations include, but are not limited to: you don't like children at any stage in human development: newborns,infants, toddlers, kids, tweens, teens, and/or young adults;
if you have an inkling that you don't want to be a parent; you are unsure about dating someone with a child, etc.
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Like most of you, I love to travel and have fun. When I travel, I like to experience the place like I live there. I avoid the tourist attractions. I hit the back streets, enjoying a beer with a store clerk who grew up two blocks away or eating ceviche in a backyard surrounded by the family of a friend of a friend. I don't travel to see the city. I travel to experience it.
For fun, I keep it simple: books, a sketch pad, drinks, good food and good company. When I go out, I prefer live music and plenty of room to dance. I will dance all night if you let me. I've been told I'm a good dancer, but that's secondary to being in the moment and letting your body do it's own thing.
I'm an INFJ--if you're into that kind of thing.
I understand that it's popular to seem aloof or noncommittal about relationships, but that's just not me. So, to save you wonderful guys some time: Im looking for a long term relationship that will eventually lead to marriage. I want it all: the house, the kids, the soccer games, the thanksgivings with your family and your slightly pervy uncle. I want the late night sushi, the road trips, the inside jokes, the joys and the pains. I want the empty nest and the til death do us part. I want the mundane and the transcendent. I'm not naive nor am I desperate. Please don't think that if we communicate, that I think that you're the one. I just believe in being direct and open, so we can make the most informed decision about who we let into our lives. If that's not your thing...cool! Rock on.
Just a little note: Regardless of how you found my profile, you've found it. Don't toe the water; jump in!! If you're interested, let me know. We may find that we're not compatible, but what have we lost?
I am looking for
Ultimately, I am looking for someone I can talk to. Meaning, I'm looking for someone who can accept a person for who they are and respect the beliefs, goals, dreams and secrets that they share. Also, he should love to laugh, be able to carry on a conversation and be comfortable around and respectful of people of various ethnic, social, political, educational and economic backgrounds.
I find guys who are intellectually curious and who have a passionate interest in something( art, music, sci-fi, sports, cars, cooking, etc.) to be very attractive.
If you are worth it, I will put forth the effort to ensure that whatever we establish has the best chance for success.
Just a note: I have little patience for people who are extremely needy, clingy, and/or possessive upon first contact. Also, I have even less patience for people who are are sketchy, flakey, unreliable, etc. If you are neither of the two or are nestled reasonably within these two extremes... Please proceed.
I want to inspired by the man I'm with. No, I'm not looking for perfection. But I do desire a man that is comfortable being a man and who strives to be an exceptional person.
Since I don't believe in rushing and regretting, I am not looking to jump into something serious right away. I would prefer to develop a friendship that, if the chemistry is right, will eventually develop into something more.