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Nerdy/Cute/SouthernBlack Girl from African Parents
Nickname:  KarateKick
Location:  United States, District of Columbia, Washington
Age:  31
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 30 - 45
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship, Short Term Relationship, Friends, Pen Pal
Eye color:  Black
Hair color:  Black
Height:  5'2"-5'6" (157cm-169cm)
Body Type:  Slim/Slender
My ethnicity is:  Black / African descent
Religion:  Muslim
Education:  Find Out Later
Smoking behavior:  Hate smoking
Drinking behavior:  Never
Relationship Status:  Divorced
Have children:  Yes, living at home
Want children:  Undecided
Languages:  Arabic, Spanish, English, Other
Occupation:  Other
When it comes to relocation:  Find out later
Starsign:  Don't display my starsign
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
Property in the country, Beach house
My fashion sense is: 
Jeans and Tshirt all the time, Dress according to the occasion, Love designer wear, Wear the latest trends, I hate clothes, Sporty, jogging shoes and trackies, Find Out Later
My sense of humor is: 
Goofy - I'm Dumb and Dumber in one, Obscure, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Find Out Later
I attend religious services: 
Find Out Later
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
FOR THE WOMEN: To all the beautiful females, I am deeply flattered that you find me interesting and attractive. I actually feel the same about you all :). HOWEVER, I'm more interested in men at the moment... I mean all the time... Yeah, lol. Unless you just want to be friends/hang out with a cool chick, please don't flirt/ email me for romantic interests. Thanks. (or at least be patient enough to let me find a guy first, then we all can talk... Just kidding... No really... Stop contacting me).


FOR THE MEN: You should know I'm primarily interested in men living with their children or who have children since I'm recently divorced with 3 children of my own. If you don't have kids, you'd have to be understanding of my own if you're interested...

With that said,

Black woman, born and raised in Southern US to African parents. So, I'm sort of the stereotypical Southern good girl yet honor the conservative, traditional, and family values from "back home" (back home = Africa).

I know everyone says this but I'm looking for a friend.

No really... Dude... I am!

I love male friendship, some of my best friendships have been with guys... Well, until they eventually get tired of hiding their feelings and tell me how much in love they are with me.

On second thought, maybe I should say I'm looking for a friend and an eventual relationship is not a problem.

A perfect time of hanging out would be riding a bike trail in the DMV. Rowing on the Potomac (I was briefly on the Crew team in high school, off topic: crew/row machines = body. On. Point), drinking coffee in Barnes & Noble while reading books we know we're not going to buy LOL.

Man, my background is weird. I grew up in a working class immigrant family in Washington DC. My neighborhood was predominately African American, I was born in the 80s, and I'm from DC. You should already know the environment I grew up in outside of home with that said. Hood, violence, and craziness.

I was sheltered from all of that due to my cultural/family background.

But you need to know that while I wasn't raised "hood," I definitely understand hood sensibilities/tendencies/traits LOL... AND I HAVE NO DESIRE FOR A PERSON WITH THEM.

I went to a top rated university and worked at the #1 Wall Street firm... Only to leave it and begin a career in social work because I'm a softy. I like helping people and giving back to the community I grew up in.

I don't like people who brag and I don't like show offs. I like down to earth guys with a sense of humor who are forward thinking.

I'm pretty and have a nice body so being easy to look at is a plus LOL (totally a joke... I am hot though, praise be to God).


What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
A conservative, liberal white man?

Does that exist?

I'm liberal when it comes to the environment, alternative health/lifestyle, listen to NPR, drive a Prius-like car LOL.

But I'm conservative when it comes to things like out of wedlock children, homosexuality, honoring family values/traditions yada yada.

I'm looking for someone similar.
Looking for ethnicity: 
White / European descent, Other