My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | KmaniS, Woman, 51 |
Location | Riverside, California, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 99, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
To Whom It May Concern:
I am happy and happy to feel and simply be alive. I feel that I am loving, easy going, feminine and fun. Also, I am transparent and honor myself and those around me as well as my children. I have a stable existence and live for the truth. I feel that I am a woman who is free spirited and true to myself. I will not change, blend or compromise myself to suit or conform to societies norms or expectations. My heart is strong and open whether I'm with someone or alone. I have cross examined myself, my life to see how far I've come and know and see how deeply I have evolved.
I am also a mother of two amazing children and I serve my community and beyond because I care and want to make a difference in people's lives. I am also a lover of life, loyal, financially responsible, open and love to have a good laugh even if it's at my own expense! As far as what I like to do funwise/activities... I read sheet music while listening to audio books in the background... Kidding. I have two sides to my personality, a serious side and a playful side. Though my serious side is purposeful and focused, my playful side is equally playful, almost childlike, something I got from my dad who was a real character. I love playing practical jokes, the more creative the better.
I love doing things in conventional situations where people are expected to act in a certain way, nothing rude or obnoxious, just things that aren't expected that catch people off-guard or poke fun at a situation. A fun man really brings out my sense of humor because I'm a ham and I love to make him laugh. It's almost painful to be with someone who's not playful, fun, quick to smile, quick to laugh, and just generally happy.
I love traveling, and have always wanted to go bungee jumping, mountain climbing, hot-air ballooning and stuff like that. I'm definitely a romantic who prefers seeking balance by spending quality time with my lover talking, touching, laughing and being loving. I think being open to the entire spectrum of life experience is far more important than being bound by rigid rules that stifle the soul, and if you truly live a fit lifestyle (which I'm trying to accomplish, I like to lift weights) you can afford to do so without fear."everything in moderation, including moderation."
But it really doesn't matter so much what you're 'doing' as who you're 'being' with does it? Without a great connection activities can sometimes be poor consolations for what we really desire. The connection is more important than the activity: a great connection with the right person can make the most mundane activity bliss. Btw, I have no problem knowing that you have flaws and discovering what they are, because we all have them and who knows, I might even like some of them. After all, your flaws single you out, set you apart, and make you different from the rest.;-)
I am most passionate about the following: growing, waking up; my path to enlightenment and finding someone fun, playful, open, interesting, caring, and loving to share it with; all other goals are subsumed within this. I have been lucky in life and I am a fun loving lady who loves to have a good time, and fully believe that laughter truly is the best medicine. However, that said, I do know when and where to be serious and respect that trait in others as well. I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical walk on the beach to something more offbeat like painting in the park. Generally I consider myself to be very open to new experiences and will try almost anything once. (okay, this is a complete lie in order to make myself sound adventurous and curious! Okay, not really, I'm just poking fun at this overly used profile cliché ;-) )
I think it's a funny thing to say... I mean generally, when I've said it, what I really mean is that I'm not closed minded, sheltered, or too much of a prude but I guess to each person it may mean something different, and depends on the context:
"hey, you wanna try this new recipe I found?"
"sure, I'll try anything once"
Or
"hey, lets do it in the dressing room"
''sure, I'll try anything once"
Hee hee... Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great time. I look forward to seeing what the future will bring with the right person and am optimistic that I will find a friend, maybe even a best friend (and yes, I am open to the possibility of finding someone to spend my life with). However at this time I just want to take things slow and have some fun times.
Btw, I believe in exclusivity in a relationship once a true relationship has been established. Anywayz, I thought I would throw in some keywords that would describe what I like to do. If you recognize yourself in some of them, I think it might be worth taking the time to keep on reading my profile. If you don't keep on reading, I swear I won't be upset with you. I will never know anyway. Lol
Travel, surprises, music, dancing, read books, meditation, last minute plans, open mind, museum, craziness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, flip flops (yes, the sandals), sexy high heels (um, you can keep this one to yourself if you recognize yourself in these :-/)... Down to earth (however fantasy is also very important), people, computers, work, sense of humor about yourself, awareness. I love to eat indian food-the variety of flavors and spices in their dishes incredible! If you know of any great restaurants local or otherwise that serve decent chicken tikka masala, please share them with me! Strangers are just friends waiting to happen... What are you waiting for? Look forward to hearing from you.
PS Feel free to reach out to me if you are a conscious communicator that authentically enjoys relating to people and loves to have a good laugh/time.
I am looking for
Looking for a quality man who is responsible, thoughtful, nurturing, supportive, driven, attentive, generous and creative. I'd like to hear from you if you are/like/have any of the following:
1) have swag
2) are pro spontaneity
3) have a killer smile
4) like petite, thick women
5) are spiritual (not churchy)
6) meditate
7) like margaritas
8) like to travel
9) are hardworking
10) are energetic
11) have survived divorce
12) are a single parent
13) not a parent aka 'the last dinosaur': never married, no kids and basically have your life together!)
14) are a goofball
15) volunteer/involved in charitable works/good causes/perform random acts of kindness
16) have lived through life's huge hurdles and have some emotional baggage-which is a requirement for anyone over 30 so feel proud you are still alive on this planet!). Most of the time, I don't take myself very seriously. Most of the time, you shouldn't, either. You should definitely message me if you are:
Smart, fun, genuine, affectionate, down to earth, hardworking and love children. I don't think that's too much to ask... Lol. Romantic men seem to be extinct. If you're extinct, contact me now!;-)