My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Light14dark, Man, 62 |
Location | Jacksonville, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 18 - 99, Asian/Black/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Professional white male interested in a relationship with a lovely, mature African American lady who is interested in a relationship with a white male. I'm easy to get along with and I don't sweat the small stuff. I have a great sense of humor (I crack myself up at times). I love sunrises on the beach and thunderstorms in the mountains. I have many interests and I love learning new things, going to new places, meeting new people, and sharing my experiences.
The most important things in my life: God (without God there is no hope), Family (without family there is no reason) and Country (without country there is no freedom). The most important things in a relationship: communication, sex and money. I don't mean how much money you have, or don't have, but how we manage what money we have. If we can agree on these three things, all else will fall into place. With age comes wisdom and a firm grasp on the realities of life. I'm not looking for or expecting perfection, just the one who's perfect for me. Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise! Well, two out of three ain't bad.
The important question is not do we want to sleep together every night. Instead, do we want to wake up together every morning?
A few of my favorite quotes:
"You cannot change what you refuse to confront".
"To the world you may be one person; but to one person you may be the world."
“A just law is a manmade code that squares with the moral law or the law of God. An unjust law is a code that is out of harmony with the moral law. “ MLK
"I will forever remain humble because I know I could have less. I will always remain grateful because I know I have had less".
"It is better to be alone than in bad company."
― George Washington
"There's no elevator to the top, you have to take the stairs."
"The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears."
"Giving up doesn't always mean you're weak, sometimes it means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go and move on".
"Don't let compliments go to your head, don't let criticism go to your heart".
"If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay".
"The difference between "try" and "triumph" is a little "umph".
"There ain't much fun in medicine, but there's a heck of a lot of medicine in fun".
"Your value doesn't decrease because of someone's inability to see your worth".
"Failure is an event, not a person".
"If you want to change your body, you must first change your mind".
"Your desire for change must be greater than your desire to stay the same".
"Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that's the one that is going to require the most from you".
"I never said it was going to be easy, I said it was going to be worth it".
"As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones". The greatest love story ever told is not Romeo and Juliet who died together but, Grand Pa and Grand Ma who grew old together.
My favorite poem:
If I could be anything, I'd be your tears. Conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live on your cheek and die on your lips.
Ladies, at the risk of sounding cruel; if you're not in this country (USA), please don't contact me. Your understanding is appreciated. Also, if you don't have a picture posted or attached, I will "NOT" respond. I have several posted, I have nothing to hide. Do you?
Now, if you've read all the above and would like to know more, I welcome your comments and your hello.
I am looking for
Great conversation, attitude, chemistry and physical attraction is very important. I believe one must be happy with who you are before you can bring peace, hope, joy and respect into a relationship. I'm not hard to please, just be who you are and I promise to do the same.
I'm looking for "love" not lust. What's the difference? Love is the desire to give at the expense of self. Lust is the desire to get at the expense of others. I look forward to your hello.
Ps: must love ice cream. Flavor negotiable. And if you like sushi, that's even better, but, not a deal breaker... Lol
I've lived long enough to understand "our" relationship will only be as successful as "we" are committed to it. It takes a lot of work to have a healthy, committed relationship, for sure.
Ladies, at the risk of sounding cruel and disrespectful, please "don't" contact me if you are not in this country.
Respectfully.