My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Nickname | Myaha, Woman, 52 |
Location | Mobile, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 99, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
How would you describe yourself?
Hello... I guess this where I tell you about myself but considering that I happened on this site by "somewhat" of accident this is a little awkward but like I said before "no coincidences" right... (smile) so here goes...
What do I believe in? What do I like? What do I want?...
I believe that the life we live and the things that happen to us from day to day are not just coincidences; that the things we experience every laugh, every tear, every joy, every pain isn't just some random moment that "just happened" it what's on our life's path, our journey. But how you overcome, recover, celebrate and share those moments makes us who we are... Who we will become. (smile) I believe our differences our diversities are our gifts. And it's these things, whether it's how you look or what foods you eat to how and who you choose to pray to... All these things are what I believe will save us; if we are to be saved as people... They are our gifts. I believe there is no perfection in this world. I am defiantly not a perfect person but what I try to be is someone who tries to put out good in the world each and every day no matter how great or small. What you put out is what you get back... (smile) so you better try to make that "back swing" one that's for you and not against you. (smile) Ok.. Enough about my beliefs... Next...
What do I like?
(Smile... Hmmm) I love laughter. I love to laugh. Anything whether it's a person, movies, situation, or just life in general(and trust me my life is pretty funny sometimes)... If it can make me laugh then I'm all for it. I think you have to be able to laugh at yourself... Laugh at life sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I know there are times where there just isn't any "funny" but in other times if you can find the "funny" it makes life just a little bit easier to swallow.
I love creativity. A creative mind in my book... Is a very sexy mind... (smile) I believe creativity births passion and passion feeds the soul. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about whips or chains or anything like that (but heyyy if that's you, then knock yourself out. I'm not judging... Smile) all I'm saying is the ability to create, to produce something from nothing whether it's with food, or words or music or dance and even love... No matter how great or small... Whatever... I believe it's one's pulse. It is the heartbeat in my world.
I love music. I know I said that in my "creativity" blurb but because it is so important to me I had to give it its own "shout-out" (smile). Most people reach for coffee in the morning. I reach for "push play". My day doesn't begin until I hear that first note, lyric, beat. I am a lover of all genres, old, new, and anything in between. Music is about mood for me; just depends on what mood I'm in to what will be playing. Sometimes all you need is gas in tank... Nowhere to be... And a good song on the radio... And life is good.
I love animals. I love them all but, dogs... They have a special place in my heart. Pure unadulterated unconditional love. They live to make you happy. They don't care what you look like, smell like, what you have what you don't have... They don't care. If you love them they will love you... Enough said. (smile)
I love chocolate... There are not enough words in the English dictionary to describe my love for this creation so let's just say..."I like it a lot" and move on. (smile)
I love family. I love the idea of family. People that are joined together either by blood or by bonds that come together to inspire, support, and love one another. They drive you crazy and touch your heart all at the same time. If you have them considered yourself blessed and if think you don't maybe you do and you just can't see it... So look again. (smile) I consider myself blessed... Very blessed. Ok.. Enough of "likes" next...
I am looking for
What do I want?
This list will be short... Because there aren't many things in this world I want or need ( I'm not saying that I'm "balling" or have all the material things in the world, I don't trust me, because that's not what I'm talking about)... As long as I am able to take care of myself and those around when needed then I'm good. (Don't get wrong either... If won the lottery I would not be giving it back!!! (smile) and yes I would quit my job (smile) but money is not everything it helps but it's not everything)
I think I want what most people want and that's to be happy. Happiness in their life, in their family, and just in general and if that means I find a piece of that here on this site for as long as I am on this site then... I am open to it. Whether it's in finding a good friend or something more. Whatever happens will happen. As long as you are someone who respects themselves, because then I know you will respect others, as long as you are someone who is open to the possibility of the possibility, as long as you understand that we are "all" just trying to get it right and sometimes we do and sometimes we don't but as long as you are trying then it's all good, as long as you understand that sometimes is not always 50/50... Sometimes its 70/30 or even 10/90... (smile) but if you keep respect, play nice, and "do un to others" then everything will be ok.
So if our paths should cross and we have a moment or more than a moment all I ask is that you try to be open and I will try to do the same and remember that we are all "works in progress"
So until we meet... If we meet (smile) just try to be good to yourself and be good to others.
Take care and Namaste.