My ethnicity is | Black/White/Native American |
Height | 5'1" or below |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Sadiee, Woman, 53 |
Location | Berkeley, California, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 33 - 53, White/Pacific Islander/Latino... |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Native American |
Height | 5'1" or below |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I like to meet new people and try new things, which is why I'm here! It would be great to meet that special someone, but you can't go wrong with making a few new friends too. I'm an eternal optimist, romantic and cosmoplitan. I'm so laid back, I'm almost horizontal! For me, life's a journey rather than a destination... And I intend to enjoy it.
I'm pretty active and have a real get-up-and-go mentality. Sitting around twiddling my thumbs isn't really my thing. Other things I love... Summer brings music festivals and there's nothing that I love more than getting a group of friends together to watch our favorite bands or just hang out and enjoy the flow of energy.
I am looking for
I love being a woman and enjoy my femininity... But I also like hanging out with "the boys" I enjoy men with intellect, wit, and strength of character. A man who enjoys being a man, while enjoying the attention of a woman is not only interesting, but infinitely sexy as well.
When it comes to romance, I'm a sucker for holding hands and just living in the moment. For a date, I like to keep things simple. Maybe just shoot some pool and have a beer. Yes, really. I think the key to finding true love is being totally comfortable and happy within yourself. That way, you're completely open and ready to make a deep connection without being charged extra for additional baggage (smile) If love was a place it would be a picnic in the woods, (or the beach) peaceful and natural and made for two! For me, love is all about intimacy and friendship, with some mutually intellectual admiration thrown in for shits & giggles.
Casual observations... Throughout this wild mystical ride... I have learned... You are the most tender, compassionate, and loving, when you have stopped "thinking", when you have shut down your conscious mind, and for those altogether brief hours... Allowed yourself to feel, without impediments, without barriers, and without restrictions. That's not to say that you are not fully "in the moment." But rather that sometimes in life you have to block out all the "white noise" to stay there. I believe that we all would hope to aspire to our highest selves. If that's not true for you, it might be time to check the itinerary, i. E., check your technique. However the first step (and often most difficult for some), is acknowledging that you are worthy... Of love, of unending passion, of true happiness. You must own the concept before you can reap the reward. Familiarity is just a diversion and what worked for you then, ceases to work for you now... Your focus in life has shifted... Your priorities change, you have finally realized that you chose the habitual route, the known outcome, the amateur techniques over the master strokes. A candy bar is familiar, but its high is only temporary... It takes courage to bring LOVE forth and not be afraid, it takes honor not misuse it, and it takes the ability to fly without the restraints of those things in life that dishonor us, drain us, confuse us, and tempt us without reward... And the ability to discern the difference... To travel, and enjoy life. To laugh and feel comfortable with one another. To contribute to each others naive questions in a meaningful way. To stay "open" to the possibilities... What attracts me? A man who is secure in himself. Someone with a generosity of spirit, a genuine respect for others, playful and spontaneous with a gentle touch. Someone who is active and enjoys the outdoors, intelligent and has a great sense of humor. Someone who means what he says and is truly open to relating. By the way, friends last longer than many relationships, be that as it may, if we meet and neither one of us feels any romantic chemistry, I would venture to say that making new friends is almost as exciting, so... My question would be, how would you like to make a new friend?; )
"You've got a good heart. Sometimes that's enough to to see you safe wherever you go..."
― Neil Gaiman