I want a respectful, God-Fearing, appreciative, generous, attractive man, with class, education, creativity and determination. But what is extremely important is that my child is surrounded by positive-not perfect people. I really don't require a whole lot-just be what God divinely created men to be. Want my man to rule his castle, because I will do all that God has blessed me to do to fill his castle with love and beauty-I believe that is my duty as a woman. But if he can't screw in a light bulb or take care of the car without calling one of his boys, that ain't no king. What happened to the Renaissance men, who could change the brakes on a car, repair the washer, balance a check book, plan an evening out, manicure the lawn, read to the children, master the grill & the stove and give a fantastic back rub? Ruby Tuesday and Rush Hour 3 ain't my idea of a romantic evening. Quality time: shopping for groceries together, cooking together, planning our vacations together, building or remodeling together, visiting friends, family or the sick & shut-in together, going to a concert together, exercising together, sitting out on the porch after dinner together, turning everything off in the house and listening to a storm together, playing outside together, reading a book together, buying big-ticket items together, traveling together, sharing our work day together and making love to each other and falling asleep together.