As far as the kind of guys I go for, I hate the macho guy type--too arrogant and bullheaded for me. I'm not into those flashy clubby guys either, So what if you can get us in VIP--I thought the evolution of society

Meant moving away from a caste system, not creating artificial and superficial ones? Show me how you're educating people about the racism american's have endured, that would impress me. I'm not into guys that

Showoff their jobs or money, that only works on gold-diggers, plus it's like a girl showing off her boobs (kinda like "I'll show you my plastic if you show me yours" type thing). I also don't like guys who automatically

Think they're smarter than girls just because they're conditioned from the status quo of overwhelming male dominance in our world, ie, And no patronizing or condescending guys, please leave your ego's at the

Door.

Oh and no stupid guys either, if you have the IQ of wood, make like a tree and leave. I'm not into wussy guys. By wussy, I mean... I'm half-japanese and if you can't hold your own and think the food I eat

Is gross or weird, go find some other girl because I don't need guys like that. I like a guy with a sense of adventure and who loves to try new things, I also love walks on the beach with that special someone. I want a guy who's loyal, who will treat me like a gentleman should. My ex boyfriend was the successful, all-American physician, JFK Jr.- looking type. Okay, I'm through with that type, they're nice to look at and showoff to your girls but don't make the best choice for soulmates.

I've learned my lesson... The hotter the guy is, the more opportunity he has to cheat on you and no matter what, it's just too much for most guys to resist, Ie: Donald Trump, Kobe Bryant, Frank Gifford, Hugh Grant, etc.. All of these*lucky* guys were all married to beautiful, intelligent, successful women and they all cheated on them. Watch "Newlyweds" on MTV and see how insecure Jessica Simpson acts all the time being married to Nick Lachey.

I'm not going to be stupid and naive and say it would never happen to me, So I'm not taking any chances because I only want to be married one time in my life. Maybe, I'm just too nice and trusting of a girl but why should we change who we are? My dad always taught me that "the world is what you make of it" and I'm going to stick to my values and whatever guy who can't appreciate that it's his loss.

God, I just want a decent man with a cute, charming, warm, humble, and funny personality (sense of humor is important), and likes kids (I'm ready to get married and start a family)...

MY RENAISSANCE MAN... My Renaissance Man would be someone who is well-rounded and who has an eclectic combination of the best traits of all the cultures and races of humankind. If I could create my perfect guy, he'd be humble and wise like Master Yuen Wo-Ping, Funny like Steve Martin, goofy and playful like Jackie Chan, deep and spiritual like Gandhi, smart like Albert Einstein, confident like Will Smith, sexy like Antonio Banderas, and have the looks of Keanu Reeves Or Russell Wong, yummy... Oh yea, I have this thing for BEAUTY MARKS, I looove them, on both guys and girls. The perfect spot for him to have one (1) would be just above the left part of his lips or if not, then (2) around the corner of his left eye. I don't know why I like them, it's a mystery to me. When I was little I used to use black pens and draw them on my face and try them in different positions... LOL, my parents would always wonder why their little girl was always drawing on her face...