My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 4'11" (150 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | TheSunshines, Woman, 46 |
Location | Columbia, South Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 27 - 50, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 4'11" (150 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I was born in Lakewood, NJ; I moved around a lot and was raised in various suburbs, so I have no urban war stories. I've been told that I "sound like a white girl", whatever that means.. I lived in Atlanta for 11 years. It really feels like home so I may find my way back there so day or at least to another city that actually has a real city scape. For now, I work for an environmental engineering and consulting firm in Columbia, SC and live in downtown Columbia.
I am a fun-loving, intelligent, witty, single Mommy. I'm playful/have a great sense of humor, but can be very serious and reserved at times (depending on the day and the situation. I have cheerleader tendencies (I am capable of being your biggest fan, fluffing your ego and offering various forms of encouragement when situations become challenging). I enjoy movies, reading books (and being read to), sports (I played soccer for 14 years and have been known to play flag/tag football), cars (and car shows), art museums (actually museums in general), traveling and going to the park.
I am generally an easy person to get along with I can be feisty and quite competitive at times. I find no pleasure in repeating myself-so listen closely and read/retain information I share. I am not particularly shy, I am fairly out going -very up front about pretty much every thing (if you ask me my opinion on thing I will definitely tell you-so I hope your feelings aren't easily hurt). I think little things (gestures and thoughts and considerations) mean a lot more than easily accessible/pre-packaged items.
A few of my favorite things are... The color red (dark pink), seafood, pretty raw steak, strawberries, flowers, and men who are boyscout-ish and behave like manly men but are gentlemen at the same time (cursing SO turns me off). I like to draw and paint; I can cook and give marvelous massages.
Oh yes-I am 4'11 barefoot, but I tend to wear heels so that puts me at 5'3/5'4 depending on the heels and the occasion ;^)
Music: I listen to a variety of music... Frequently-as in what I listen to on pretty much on a basis.. Cage the Elephant, Train, Cake, Weaving the Fate, Death Cab for Cuties, Republic, Black Eyed Peas, Gym Class Heroes, Deadmau 5, Panic at the Disco, Weezer, Jimi Hendrix, Pink, Katy Perry, Fergie, LMFAO, Everclear, Cobra Starship, 3OH! 3, Far East Movement, Skrillx and Nickleback, Miles Davis (Miles is pretty much every night at bed time;o))... And I love LOVE love live music!!! So extra gold stars to guys who play instruments and/or are not afraid to belt out a few notes/lines of a song to woo me ;)
Anything else you need to know about me just ask..
FYI/Quick FAQs
-I can be spontaneous, but spontaneous affection for strangers.. Sight unseen, voice unheard... Just random online guys.. HmMm no so much (this also covers and is applicable to "staying with me/spending the night" on the day/night that we meet.
First Date
HmMmm... Some place interesting, some day with an interesting someone who is worth the time and effort... (and appreciates that I am definitely worth the time and effort).
Additional tid-bit of information: Options do NOT include inviting yourself over to rub, grope me "see my sexy body and big boobies". I really should not have to state that.. But, apparently it is necessary :op
As much as I enjoy texting, messaging, etc... If after a week you fail to set definite plans to meet up and see if there's a bit of chemistry between us.. Or I sense a lack of initiative/capability to pick a day and an activity.. I honestly and sometimes completely lose interest. Just saying... I have plenty of text/FB friends... I am looking for a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to take step to work towards getting it.
If I ask you for your time and you are unavailable then it is up to you to follow up with an alternate activity/day/time.
I am looking for
I know there are Plenty Of Fish-in the sea but I am looking for a particular unique catch ;^)...
I'm looking for a man I can trust, believe in, look up to, truly admire, and respect (even when I don't agree with his point of views or actions)-he will be honest, intelligent, fun, easy-going, and open-minded-someone who will completely appreciate my various qualities.
He will also be able to admit that he is wrong-if and when he is wrong!
He must be good w/smaller people (and possess the ability to be a little silly, play video games, read books every once in a blue moon, and watch rated PG and PG-13 movies occasionally is a plus).
He definitely needs to be able to recognize the importance of establishing a strong friendship w/someone before trying to have a serious relationship w/ that person, and understands the true meaning of reciprocity!
Another definite need would be to be about what he says... Regardless of how simple a thing it may be-if he tells me he will do something-Do It... His words and actions will be everything to me and I want to be able to trust him and believe in his words without a doubt.
It would also be nice if he is aware of the benefits of letting me win and have my way ever now and then-if I am happy, everybody tends to be happy-my happiness is contagious like that!
He needs to be the adventurous type to some degree-b/c I sometimes I do get the urge to take random road trips or just go somewhere to get a way for a moment... (singing on road trips is sometimes required *smile*).
I, in general, desire to find a man whom will see me as an inspiration- to be more passionate, to allow him self to be more open/vulnerable, work harder towards his goals, to be more spontaneous- to just in general want to be a better and stronger man; and will likewise be my inspiration (not simply compliment me and my life but be a motivation to me to constantly reach goals, improve and grow as an individual in all aspects of my life).