No games, no BS and if you lie to me about your family, friends, past or children... Your done! On now let's move on. Need a friend, lover and a fighter! (Not literally, but you know what I mean) I want someone that I can have fun with! I want someone that is secure in himself. Someone who I can just be me with! Someone that will protect me! I am not one of those women that says I don't need a man because I do! I love companionship and romance. You need to have a secure income. That may sound superficial but I have children I am raising and I don't need another one. Show me new things and experiences and not mind if we have the kids along.. Sometimes! (eventually) I NEED a man, that is a man! I don't want your eyebrows looking better than mine. And if you spend more than 30 -45 minutes getting ready everyday, it just won't work! I love a take charge kind of guy. I don't want to have to decide where to go or what to do all of the time! And please, please please don't try to impress me with what you have!! It is such a turn off! Material things are wonderful and I love being spoiled but I would rather travel the world than have all the toys and not be able to enjoy life! Been there done that! And if we can have both that is even better!:) Understand that I am just getting out of a long term relationship and marriage so I will be a little gun shy when responding to certain things and a little rusty on the dating thing. I will however know if something is right for me and when it is not. Just be honest with me... I am very understanding to the truth.