Don't want to change a man, just want to spoil one... I don't want to play games... I'm not dramatic. I am high attention, but not high maintenance. I like a lot of time and attention from a man, but need my space too. People waste too much of their lives & loves on power struggles, control issues, and just not telling the truth. If you want something (whatever it is: other women, special sex, no commitment, just say it) it either works or it doesn't; no point in lying to please me and then both of us having to pay for it... Talks, fights, etc. Life is precious, you're precious... So am I. Let's get it right. I have so much to give and all the little stuff just isn't worth getting in the way. Believe you better love while you can, life is short. I am not interested in legally separated, players, or 'daily herbal smokers.' I want a man that has big shoulders (can lead), desires an southern LADY, but can twist off too! High energy, but love retreating. Independent, but don't want to run the house. Sex is fantastic fun, but I want some depth, and to be there for someone and them there for me... Nice to know someone cares if you fall from the planet or not.

You write, no games, drama, etc. I don't understand why there are soo many of you darlin' brothers on here anyway. Seems you'd all be taken! Believe men/women were made to be together since that's the balance and spice in life. Love a man's energy, focus, foresight, yawl are fascinating. Live for the beach, have a crazy sense of humor, love people, entertaining & LOTS & LOTS of quiet just us together time too. What's a nice way to say this? The physical side of a relationship is very important to me. Need creative, loving, touching; all of it. Love luxurious things, but drive a 4wd SUV. Love jazz, blues, ol' south juke joint stuff, metal, and classic rock and roll. Old fashioned, but very unconventional. Want to live & play & want it all now! Want to squeeze all there is out of every second. Remember: Favorite quote, ok just one of my favorites. Remember Parliment Funkadelic? Free your mind, your ass will follow... That's me! Don't like the word no, no we can't do that; no, what would they say; no, not tonight; ... Negativity really bothers me. Have a job, a business, go to school, great friends, but want, really need, that one someone. Double the joy, half the sorrow. Thanks for checking in on me. Always, n.