My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'2" (188 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink regularly |
Nickname | Wwm1011, Man, 53 |
Location | Bloomington, Minnesota, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 35 - 55, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'2" (188 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink regularly |
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THANKS FOR ACTUALLY READING AND NOT JUST LOOKING AT THE LOCATION AND PHOTOS!
Happy New Year! If not one guy this year tells you truth, here is one to remember and I hope you truly take heed to it. Often you'll find that guys will ask the basic generic questions, which 9 times out of 10 are coming from their head residing below their waist line. As you will learn immediately their true intent is not to get to know you as a woman, but get to know you enough to add another notch on to their belt. When a guy like myself is looking for something more, they will ask those questions that you may not often be asked, to determine if you are indeed that woman entirely that he wishes to get to know and not just the bits and pieces that he finds to be of interest. I don't know you from a can of paint, for all I know I may not be of interest to you or of preference. What I do know is that you appear to be a woman of substance from your post and you should make each and every guy good looking, financially secure, ugly and broke alike. Take the time and get to know you entirely for the woman you are and not just as another notch or some object. You don't even have to tell me, I already know. Happy New Year!
I totally believe that a lot of us both men and women have forgotten this one thing, which happens to be "COURTSHIP" I say this for the fact that so many tend to take the process of establishing a friendship and developing a relationship in the wrong context. Let me further elaborate a bit in regards to this statement. When our Grandparents and their parents were doing their thing, there was a courtship involved which allowed them to become friends, come to learn of one another and so forth.
Outside of being physically attracted to one another there was an establishment made between the two that then led to dating. Now a day what most is deemed as dating is what they looked upon as being a relationship, and that's why I believe that a courting should have a place in the whole process of getting to know someone. And more women should indeed demand such, instead of presenting men with there personal information such as phone numbers, home and work address, let him work for these things and show that he is worthy of such the honor.
Courtship is one of those words that you rarely hear in a conversation these days and pretty much has not been so since the early 80's late 70's, and now with the internet and online dating its not even considered with everyone wanting things in an instant. Some things need to have their time to develop and not be rushed. So if more individuals courted, then start to date there would not be as many so called relationships that go sour; when those explorations are truly dates or dating with expectations of establishing and building a relationship.
That's just my theory of it all and how I view such. Some may understand, then some may not.
I'm 45, 6'2 and 220 lbs. I love to travel and I do so every weekend, more domestically and not as often as I would like internationally. So if I just happen to find you of interest and there is a true and sincere connection entirely, it would be nothing for me to get on a plane or send for you whenever you wanted or when time permitted for you. I'm actually exploring options of relocating being my career is in a field that is among one of the top growing in the IT field across America, I can relocate to any state here in the U.S. I enjoy cooking and when I'm in relax mode you will find me watching the food network getting ides for a new dish to prepare. You may see my location change from time to time from Minnesota to Jersey, South Carolina, North Carolina or Georgia, that is an indication that I'm travel. I'm God fearing and believe that I would not be who I am or have what I have without him.
Now the reason that I'm single is for the fact that I refuse to settle for anything less than of that in which I'm willing, ready and able to give. I'm here on this site is to expand my options in finding that special one for me. The way I view it, why limit yourself to ethnicity and geographic area. When that special one for you may just be out of the box you live in. Straight to the point. I'm not here to try and date this one and that one (for one I'm looking for a wife and not a casual dating situation. And another it gets expensive with the flights, dining and entertainment). I'm looking to court the right one, that is the right one for me!!!
Nobody is perfect, but there is a perfect woman for me. Yes I tend to get quite a few messages as well as responses and that I will not try and down play . Just like many other men and women here on this site do as well . Whether it's do to the photos displayed, the content shared or a combination of them both . I will be cordial and respond to all that takes the time and liberty to express interest . I will never view myself as being too established or that full of myself to show common courtesy to another. I am forever humble and being a god fearing man know that it can all be taken away and gone tomorrow. And with that being shared I would like to share this . When you know what you want, desire and deserve . Simple things such as common courtesy, proper communication etiquette ( asking how some one is doing or how was their day ) before you start asking questions or sharing your point of view is very important . If one does not show common courtesy or practice proper communication etiquette from the start . What you think is going to be something that their just going to miraculously develop in a friendship, relationship or marriage? I think not . It's sad just how many women have been advised that there was no interest just because of the little things, that are so important . Some may even view it as being a bit petty or too demanding on my end .
I am looking for
I'm not looking for a someone that just wants me to take her on a date to the movies on a weekend getaway or to my bed. I'm looking for someone that is ready to be mentally taken places they have never been before, explore things that they have never seen or heard. Experience feelings and passions they never imagined are knew to even exist. I'm seeking that special woman, she does not have to be perfect woman, but perfect for me. I seek that woman that is completely comfortable with who she is as a person, and would not change one attribute of herself that God has blessed her with. I seek that woman that's comfortable attending a black tie affair and just as comfortable being backstage at a Kanye concert. Someone who is ready and able to let me get to know her character and person and become friends first. She must respect herself as I respect myself, for I will not allow myself to just correspond with any and everybody just because I happen to find you physically attractive. Just like I would not expect you to correspond with any and everybody guy just because he has stability and security. I'm looking for someone that wants to have fun, enjoy the time that we spend together and able and willing to make the best of it. I work too hard not to play even harder. So if I want to jump on a plane at the end of a long work week, you need to be ready and able to join me. If you don't have flexibility like that or able to plan a weekend getaway, where is the fun?