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So to forgive is divine. Why is it so hard then?
“Ultimately, what inspires us to forgive is more often selfishness than anything else. It hurts too much to stay angry and it becomes self-destructive to hold back forgiveness. We forgive for the sake of love; we just sometimes get stuck on the way there.” - Dr. Laura Berman, Berman Center,... full story
Is sleeping apart the key to a happy marriage?
A woman faced jail after stabbing and beating her husband to death. In Britain, one in four couples resort to separate beds. Reason? SNORING partners
The above are tragic-comic glimpses into a serious but rarely discussed issue for couples – sleep incompatibilities. My dude wakes me up... full story
Should race be emphasized in trans-racial adoption?
Shannon Gibney once adopted by white parents said she longed for information she could not get from books
“Minority children in foster care are being ill-served by a federal law that plays down race and culture in adoptions”
According to a report released recently, white parents... full story
Beyond Geography
Is there a reluctance to say someone who lives in England/United States getting to know someone in the Caribbean? How can that scenario or relationship thrive or move to the next level? – One of my readers asked.
If Russel Crowe got his a** arrested and charged with second -degree assault... full story
Dating cougars and panthers
Older men … older women … where do you draw the line? How much age difference is acceptable?
Tags: black women white men, black women black men, black dating site
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Is marriage the enemy really?
“Why would anyone want to screw up a perfectly good relationship by getting themselves married?”
I have heard that line from my friends more often than not whenever one of my friends plans on getting married. And the rate of divorce in this country is doing more harm to people’s view... full story
Strip club issues
She knows he likes strip clubs and that kills her. But she has decided to take him to a strip club for his birthday. She would really love to be the girl who doesn’t mind but she just can’t shut down those images in her memory (women rubbing themselves on her man in front of her) and it... full story
Should you keep secrets from your partner?
Yes! Yes! Some things are better left bottled up inside of you.
Whenever you meet that special someone you are supposed to share everything … that I don’t dispute … your fears, dreams, thoughts, bills, medicine cabinets! I don’t dispute that. But there are things we share that kinda... full story
Interracial porn getting us off?
I do not deny the fact that the use of race in fantasy scenarios aids the process of arousal … hot Latina women, big black d*** … you know what you search for when looking for porn online.
The race of these actors and actresses, as set by most porn films’ themes or as construed by the... full story
Sex for resources – Is it genetic?
Biology says it’s not about bling, it’s about surviving
Ever watched relations between penguins on National Geographic or something? The females ONLY mate with the males that bring pebbles to build their nests. I mean, we are higher species … So why does it come as a surprise... full story
Online dating caution
Trust issues always come up when people are voicing their reservations about online dating safety. But should you regard your online date as a serial killer until he or she proves you wrong?
Tags: black white dating, black women white men, interracial dating
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Attitudes that shatter interracial relationships
When the 2006 movie ‘Something New’ hit the big screen, all pro-interracial dating writers and bloggers alike raved so much about it. It was kinda like a savior. This was a movie that was supposed to inspire people to change their attitudes towards interracial dating. Have our attitudes... full story
Adult imaginary friends
If you can’t be with the one you love, why not love the one you dream of?
We used to concoct imaginary friends as kids … And now that we are older, I am sure we all have our imaginary sexual partners … those people in our sexual fantasies?
For some of us, this imaginary sex companion... full story
Wealth or longevity
People love to complain … Sometimes I feel as though it’s what we live for.
Anyhow, we have all heard about men making more money than women and I think most women actually complain about it. But on the other hand, studies have shown that women outlive men by five years. Do men... full story
The impact of immigration on interracial marriages
Did you ever figure that mass immigration could be slowing down the rate of interracial marriages? Well it seems the impact isn’t widely understood. The argument is that by expanding racial/ethnic immigrant enclaves, mass immigration makes it easier for immigrants to find partners within their own... full story
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Blacks and their relationships
Black people and their relationships is something most people (we bloggers included) love to write about. And I am guilty as charged, doing... full story
When settling in marriage leads to contempt
Sometimes giving ultimatums aint the best thing to do.
This 42-year-old man was given an ultimatum to marry her wife (then girlfriend) or she... full story
30-day sex fast
Want to have better sex? Try a 30-day fast.
According to Sex therapist Ian Kerner, more satisfaction in the bedroom may sometimes entail stepping... full story
Relationship deal-breakers
The new trend it town that seems to have hit most of my male friends is, whenever one of them meets a woman and shows some form of interest... full story
Sex in the Conservative city
The conservative woman is fighting battles on two fronts: The Big Mama’s girl and the modern expectations of who she should be.
The big thing... full story
When he loses his job, which spouse gets hit hardest?
Nothing can be more destabilizing for a marriage like a husband losing his job
Handling a spouse’s job loss is something I myself must admit... full story
I am leaving if you don’t commit
Most people have been dating for longer that they can remember. Sometimes people reach that point where the relationship is like stagnant –... full story
So to forgive is divine. Why is it so hard then?
“Ultimately, what inspires us to forgive is more often selfishness than anything else. It hurts too much to stay angry and it becomes self-destructive... full story
Is sleeping apart the key to a happy marriage?
A woman faced jail after stabbing and beating her husband to death. In Britain, one in four couples resort to separate beds. Reason? SNORING partners... full story
Should race be emphasized in trans-racial adoption?
Shannon Gibney once adopted by white parents said she longed for information she could not get from books“Minority children in foster care... full story
Beyond Geography
Is there a reluctance to say someone who lives in England/United States getting to know someone in the Caribbean? How can that scenario or relationship... full story
Dating cougars and panthers
Older men … older women … where do you draw the line? How much age difference is acceptable?
Tags: black dating site, black... full story
This takes interracial dating issues to another level
This black chick has a boyfriend who is white. And just as most interracial relationships, his grandfather is against interracial relationships. Well... full story
Is marriage the enemy really?
“Why would anyone want to screw up a perfectly good relationship by getting themselves married?”
I have heard that line from my friends more... full story
Bid on a wife
I always like to refer to those of us who are still single as still being on eBay but I didn’t think you could be looking for shoes and end up bidding... full story