I am a very real and approachable type of person - one who is honest, sincere, and genuine; yet also, a very private person. But more important, as we get to know each other, one comes to also realize that I am very open, open minded, and forthright.

Likewise in my mind - sharing words, sentences, concepts, beliefs, and ideas are very crucial in the process of really coming to know someone.

Pursuing such things are the very things that adds substance, meaning, develops a relationship, and actually permits a purely sexual desire to blossom into the most beautiful type of union between two people.

And, this is most certainly true for every type of relationship there is; and, to whatever degree it is pursued.

In my mind, I recognize the fact that the Good Lord created man [and therefore, mankind - both male and female] with both a mind and emotion - logic and passion.

But then, He went much further by creating woman - having been taken from Adam's rib.

I say "much further" because one can most readily see that He has created women with ever so many curves and beauty [both within and without] that is so very appealing and desirable in a man's eyes.

All of this is very sexual as Genesis 02:24 plainly states it should be [ie, "become one flesh"]. The key word there is "flesh". That little word includes the spiritual and mental. But most important, it emphasizes the physical, sexual attraction between a man and a woman. They are incomplete until they are united and become one physically.

Thus, one's sexual desirability and attraction for one another is the foundation of everything. Therefore, it naturally follows then that the primary foundation is not whether or not we like this or that movie or this or that song. In other words, some put way too much emphasis upon the minor things in life - something like putting the cart before the horse as the old saying goes].

But rather - the true, genuine foundation is that basic sexual attraction for each other. And then, with the interaction of both our logic and passion as one interacts with one another, something very beautiful and magical can then be created. Thus, it is from and out of that most fundamental foundation that one can then build a relationship - having the opportunity to create a rich, full, lasting relationship that then includes everything else in life [which also then ultimately includes the music and movies that one likes].

Thus, even though a strong sexual and physical attraction and desire must be at the foundation and evident from the very beginning - fulfillment of that ultimate aspect rightfully must come ONLY IF and WHEN both mutually desires each other at that level of intimacy at some point in the future.

And most important at this point is the realization that everything else [meaning, everything outside of the initial physical attraction] within both has been added into the entire interaction between both by this time.

I mention all of this because I am very much attracted to black women. To me [generally speaking], a black woman is the crowning achievement of God's creative ability and example of His handy work. The sheer beauty, curves of her figure and physical beauty, how she is built and her attributes [both inside and out] is a true, genuine work of art - so very stimulating, magical, sensual, exotic - and yes - so very erotic [all meant in the "good" sense of the terms]!

Likewise then, I also elevate and place black women on a very high pedestal - showing them the greatest respect and honor --- rather than --- knocking them down or displaying anything else that would demonstrate any type of disrespect or looking down upon them in any way, shape, or form.

Yes, I am an older white man. But, that fact can also be a very big plus for you [dare I say a "turn on"]?! Just like the differences between and therefore the attraction between the sexes; and, the sheer magical beauty that is created when black and white come together - so too can the ultimate be created when one expands their horizon even further such as by exploring the additional beauty of younger and older. Take a moment and contemplate the look of silver!

If I have presented some ideas and concepts - a view of life that intrigues you; or, you can agree with - then let us converse. One never knows what might develop just by taking the opportunity to explore and develop such things further with each other!

I am NOT one to use or abuse - nor - do I like to be done that way either. I am here for a real, genuine, and long term relationship.