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SimplyDena, Age 26, Virginia

Lansing Interracial Dating

I'm a singlemother of two children, my daughter is 19 and lives away from home and my son is 9. I believe that I am a good person with a great personality who is just looking for someone that is interested in having a friendship and building on that. I don't need to marry, it's not that important to me but having an honest, drama free, adult relationship with someone is. Honesty is key in any relationship - I look at it this way, I don't have to lie about anything. I'm going to tell you the truth regardless if you like what you hear or not and I hope that you will respect me enough to do the same. If you are just looking for someone to play games with or to make you feel better about yourself or you're looking for someone to save that isn't me. Keep looking!! I'm very self sufficient. I have a good job, I'm strong willed and independant and alot of men can't handle that. If you can, give me shout and we'll see what happens!
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lewistl    
Looking For Mr. Right!
Nickname:  lewistl
Location:  United States, Michigan, Lansing
Age:  43
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 30 - 48
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship
Eye color:  Hazel
Hair color:  Blonde
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  A few extra pounds
My ethnicity is:  White / European descent
Religion:  Spiritual, but not religious
Education:  Bachelors degree
Smoking behavior:  Do not smoke, but ok if you do
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Divorced
Have children:  Yes, living at home
Want children:  Can't have children
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Other
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate within my country
Starsign:  Taurus
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, Beach house, Stilt house in the jungle
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion
My sense of humor is: 
Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue, Sarcastic - Dennis Miller is a cream puff compared to me
When I go to parties: 
I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Lunch with a friend, Catching up on household chores, Spending time with the family, Doing absolutely nothing, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Never
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
Well, I wouldn't describe myself as a Barbie Doll but I think I'm attractive. I've got a great personality, wonderful sense of humor, I'm honest, loyal and can be bad ass if need be. I'm a great mom and very dedicated to my family, friends and work.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
I'm looking for someone who is past the game playin stage. Someone who has a good sense of humor, who can be loyal and honest. I'm not too concerned with the physical aspects because I believe it is more about what is on the inside than the out but we do have to be somewhat attracted to each other :) I'm looking for someone who appreciates a strong, confident, independant woman and isn't scared off by that. I'm looking for a friend, I don't necessarily interested in getting married but I would like to find someone that is interested in friendship and work on more.
Looking for ethnicity: 
Black / African descent, Black / Non-African descent, Mixed / Multi