| My ethnicity is | Black |
| Height | 5'1" or below |
| Status | Single |
| Seeking | Long-term |
| Body type | Average build |
| Have children | Children at home |
| Smoking | Hate smoking |
| Drinking | Drink socially |
| Nickname | Mochalite_IL, Woman, 45 |
| Location | Melrose Park, Illinois, USA |
| Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 42, Any Ethnicity |
| My ethnicity is | Black |
| Height | 5'1" or below |
| Status | Single |
| Seeking | Long-term |
| Body type | Average build |
| Have children | Children at home |
| Smoking | Hate smoking |
| Drinking | Drink socially |
"Looking for the Last Guy I'll need to meet!"
I enjoy movies, new restaurants, love cooking (and pretty good at it), reading, trying out new things. I'm not that big on sports but don't mind watching (but you will never hear me arguing what team or player is better than whoever). Can't wait to find someone that wants to sit down and explain football to me! I'm a load of fun, you can expect the unexpected from me sometimes!
Well educated, (am employed) but looking to put this education to better use! Very ambition. I am family orientated, tired of the riffraff! When I'm in a relationship, I take it full force. I believe if we have finally found each other, that's the way it should stay. There isn't anything I wouldn't do to keep our relationship fresh (well... Should I retract that... Within reason?!) I love cuddling, don't believe in arguing (disagreements, yes, but we can communicate with each other, not yell at each other), I do believe in some space apart- so hint.. Please have a friend or two! For the most part I've always been told I'm an amazing woman, why am I single... I'm single because I get involved with the wrong type of men! I haven't been as picky before, but I'm tired of the headaches, so I'm picky now. People say you can't be too picky or you'll stay single... Well I'm single now because I wasn't picky so what's the difference? I might as well be happy right?
I am looking for
Some qualities I seek in my partner are excellent hygiene, someone who is not a hypocrite, a hard worker, honesty, loyalty, a true gentleman, someone who is done with the games (this includes life games and video games), puts family first, I'd prefer someone who has a career but if you have a job and working towards a career that's acceptable as well (if you have to question what this means... You don't have a career and no intentions of having one). I don't really date men who live at home with their parents unless it's a really good reason (parents are sick, family is having financial issues, etc)- but I just love my mom's cooking or there's no reason for me to leave, I got it made... Won't cut it. I love a man that can keep me laughing, is spontaneous, romantic, a true listener, if I can look at you and say, I wouldn't mind my son turning out to be like you... We on the right path. And if you want to dominate the house and make me your slave... Wrong independent woman! 50/50 be it I'm at home doing all house duties and you out working paying the bills to us both out working and paying the bills and coming home both doing house duties, but I'm not having two jobs! I am too young to be stressing over any man and his evil selfish ways. (I've been approached way too many times with this, hence I feel the need to announce this up front)