38, 5'5" heavyweight, brown hair, brown eyes. Love rock, classical, country old and new & alternative music. Love reading, cold weather, old architecture & foreign films. Divorced, 4 grown children, live alone. Coffee-holic.

UPDATE 2020-

Moving to TN property, raise some small livestock and hopefully relax! someone should really friend me, ands show me around.

12/30/10 update-

Now moved from New Jersey to Indiana, At my age the whole rat race of the corporate world no longer holds any appeal to me. Changed my life, an my attitude, also I now do blue collar work. Yes y'all I work in a factory! My life is simply easy now. Simple job, bought a simple little house, (fixer-upper. My hobby) rarely cook but can, (and very well if I do say so myself) Not really into working out(believe me I get enough of that at work}. Though I have lost weight since these pics, since the move to Indiana. So I wont say it doesn't have it's benefits. I'm in the U. S. A. So no need to import, have my own life so no need to entertain me, and I'm not into the whole,"it's all about me" thing.

There are an astounding amount of beautifully well rounded, emotionally stable men on this site. Alas they either hate smokers (which I won't give up, not like I smoke in my home or around others who don't.) or they want children (at my age? Yeah right!)

I want to be loved and love in return, I want to share affection and companionship. Enjoy life.., as the song goes "in my next 30 years". Like I said, Want it to be about us.