It can be extremely pleasurable for men and women especially … you know, the clit stimulation … need I say more? It is one of the moist most exceedingly erotic, loving and satisfying, sexual activities you can allow yourself the luxury of. So why is this particular act a source of dissatisfaction and anxiety for couples? Could be because it taps into a wide range of fears, insecurities and neuroses … or maybe the idea of having their faces buried in places swimsuits cover seems eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww!!!!!!!!
That aside, do you think oral sex is even more intimate than intercourse?
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Comment by kenyanito on 17 November 2008:
it is my dear. You can get alot of satisfaction out of it especially the ladies
Comment by Two Schools of thought on 17 November 2008:
I believe it is very intimate, and yes more so than regular sex. Lets face it, no pun intended, we all touch there, but put your face there or tongue there, is another matter all together.
I believe the first school of thought comes under the heading of likes and dislikes. Many men only think about what they like and automatically do not consider GIVING oral sex. I believe a big mistake.
That leads me to the second school of thought, and that is having sex, SHOULD BE about pleasing your partner. There is nothing that turns me on as much as having my partner get all worked up and go wild, as I keep performing as she climaxes over and over.
To me it like buying your girl friend/wife a gift for mothers day, her birthday, or Christmas. Do it right, make her feel special, and give her the gift she will want over and over again. That is not to say you should not buy gifts at other times. We all want to seize the moment sometimes.
To me when my face looks like a glazed doughnut, we are both very, very happy campers!
If you want to know about different positions in giving a woman oral sex, just ask. I will also tell ou about my favorite position.
Comment by Norge08 on 17 November 2008:
Yes, I believe it is more intimate than intercourse. Sex is about pleasing your partner. Showing her(him) love and affection in the most intimate of ways and not being concerned about your own satisfaction, only theirs.
Comment by Carmondo on 17 November 2008:
Oral sex can be one of the most intimate activities shared by a couple since it is even more up close and personal than conventional intercourse. It can be extremely pleasurable if you take the time to please her as you get to know her body and see how it responds to your tongue and your fingers, etc. Why a couple would shy away from oral sex and consider it a source of anxiety and/or dissatisfaction is unimaginable to me. Men, you need to get down deep into those bikini areas and show her just how much you adore her by facilitating her to moan and scream your name over and over!
Comment by 4R3AL on 17 November 2008:
I THINK BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD MAKE YOU MORE COMFORTABLE GIVING AND RECIEVING. IT’S NOT SOMETHING THAT Y0U DO WITH EVERYONE. IT TURNS ME ON TO GIVE BUT I DON’T WANT A SELFISH PARTNER.
Comment by Mr/ Leslie John Arasin Sr. on 17 November 2008:
At the age of 60 , I started oral sex in my teens and I have aways felt that if it is not clean enough to eat , I sure nuff would not stick my dick in it . I feel that it is a way to get the natural lubrication fluids flowing , before penetration , so one never trys to enter a dry hole . As once a long time past , I received scratches on my dick because I was in too much of a hurry . And I have been blessed with a thick tool . We , always start our nightly encounters with a 69 action and being a gentleman , my Ladie takes the top side . Sex without foreplay is just a fuck . Making Love takes all night when done properly . In conclusion we both enjoy this form of foreplay to the Max and would never go any other way .
Comment by trail_hiker on 17 November 2008:
Ladies,
If your guy goes down on you everyday because he likes the way you taste and you smell without perfumes, you have got yourself a pussy-slave for life. Enjoy it.
Comment by party1 on 17 November 2008:
Dear Future Wife and Mother in Law,
Be assured I would never marry a woman that publically engaged in this conversation.
Sincerely,
Party1
Comment by Coca4Cream on 17 November 2008:
Oral sex can be the most stimulating and satisfaying pleasure a man and woman can give each other. Love making is a bound between two people and there should be no hang-ups when it comes to sexual intercourse or oral sex. I believe in making sure that my lover is pleased in every way possible and that it shouldn’t be a one way street either. However, that’s not to say that when considering to perform oral sex some please aren’t so gun hoe about it. Also, please make sure that you know your partner’s status as well as your own. Because while it may be about pleasure its also about safety. So, if there are those that think the act of oral sex is dirty, keep an open mind and don’t limit yourself and or your partner.
Comment by Coca4Cream on 17 November 2008:
Yes, I think oral sex is much more intimate than intercourse. It’s probably one of the most satisfying feelings a man and woman can experience. I think it’s a shared experience between both people and it certaintly enhances the art of love making. So, if your on the fence about engaging in oral sex, I say come outside of your comfort zone and try something new.
Comment by Michelle100 on 17 November 2008:
Yes, but the one receiving it should ensure that he/she is clean and fresh!
Comment by WalrusOfLove on 17 November 2008:
I had a mature respone all lined up in my head….then I red Party1’s post and I could not stop laughing….sorry Party1(if you’re being serious…which I doubt you are lol)..
P.S. Will post a serious response when I stop laughing..
Comment by WalrusOfLove on 17 November 2008:
I had a mature respone all lined up in my head….then I read Party1’s post and I could not stop laughing….sorry Party1(if you’re being serious…which I doubt you are lol)..
P.S. Will post a serious response when I stop laughing..
Comment by WalrusOfLove on 17 November 2008:
excuse the typolas lol…..still laughing
Comment by EbonyLicker on 17 November 2008:
I have to admit that pleasuring a woman (especially a black woman) in this fashion is the best for me. Licking that brown sugar bowl until she busts one hard is at the top of my fantasies. Its only when I know it’s good for her that it’s good for me.
Comment by Javan2 on 17 November 2008:
Yes, I agree 100% with Michelle. The one receiving must be clean and smell good or have little to no smell at all. If the woman is very clean and attractive, the easier it is to stay down there, but anymore so many people cheat nowadays it gets hard to do something like that. Men who don’t do it for their women will almost always lose her to a man who loves to do it. So, guys and ladies have to balance it out. In the past, I’ve had a lady who loved giving it more than any other sexual act. Very lucky to experience a woman like that and she’d stay down working for hours.
Comment by TallSweet47 on 18 November 2008:
First let me say being a scorpian, oral sex is very important to me. I love to give it and receive it, and like Michelle said, yes a woman has to be very clean, have a clean fresh scent without the perfumes. If a man is not giving oral pleasure for whatever reason, it’s a shame because your missing out as well as your partner, and you both should be able to talk about it, because it is so very important to pleasing the female anatomy, and you’ll just end up in a break-up.
Comment by WHURR on 18 November 2008:
Since I am a 100% VAGitarian, it only becomes intimate when she squeezes your ears so hard with her thighs that the loss of hearing/ear-blockage from the 1981 AC/DC concert gets cleared….then its intimate.
If that doesn’t happen… it was just sex w/o intimacy!
Is it considered intimate if the people in the International Arrivals pick-up zone are watching from the sidewalk, while you are parked in the emergency lane?
Comment by kenyanito on 18 November 2008:
oh Party1…i hope you are joking coz if you ain’t then man you are missing out on alot…And yes one needs to be clean
Comment by WalrusOfLove on 18 November 2008:
In my experience it is not to every womans taste…granted it may only be a small percentage, but some of you out there don’t like to be pleasured in this way. My last partner did not ever let me vist her Lady Garden in the time we were together, althought she would perform this act on me…she would not let me return the gesture. She said “It wasn’t her thing”…but it was mine…I love to pleasure my partner in this way, and of course as Michelle said…one has to be fresh & clean..you dont have to taste like passion fruit, but at least make to effort. It didnt make our sex lives boring, but I found that I was missing that real “intimate connection”
Comment by caterino44 on 18 November 2008:
i agree with WalrusOfLove…..if your partner does not like oral sex it can be a source of a disconnection….it is the most intimate thing a couple can do with one another….there should be no inhibitions when it comes to the bedroom so ladies remember your man wants his lady in the streets but it is ok to be a freak in the sheets…give him what feels good to him or he might look elsewhere for it…i love to give my man oral (if i had one) and love him to give it to me.(again if i had one)….pleasing my man is the most important thing to me….because i know when i keep him happy he is sure to keep me happy…
Comment by nassy3 on 18 November 2008:
do u need a torch to find ur way down there honey? ooh here it is. ive found it…… if u need a gud reason to suck or lick try chocolating it first. this culd be sweeter than u imagined. what i mean is no couple shuld find an excuse not to have oral sex. i think tis logic 4 the sake of satisfaction…..surely
Comment by code56 on 18 November 2008:
What if you both like it very much, but one gets to anxious and can’t come? How does one relax and just let go and enjoy?
Comment by roseanne1966 on 18 November 2008:
As with most things in life, it takes time, patience and practice. It is probably one of the most rewarding things a man and woman can experience together. If men and women trully want their relationships to extend past just the first 6 months, it is worth understanding how satisfying oral sex can be.
Comment by nia21 on 18 November 2008:
Well, I’ve enjoyed reading the responses above. I am in total agreement with TallSweet, as I am also scorpio (although to be honest, I’m not sure what that has to do with anything). There is nothing better than pleasuring your partner in this way, and allowing him to the same for you. But, you’ve BOTH got to enjoy it. It’s awful if you think that he is doing it out of a sense of obligation, you can’t relax and enjoy the moment. You’ve got to feel that he WANTS to do it. And yes, cleanliness is paramount. Don’t even get me started on that one!
Comment by sarasmile329 on 18 November 2008:
If you’ve experienced it, and it’s a part of your sexual encounters anyway, the answers is obvious (hell yeah). If you haven’t experienced it you are automatically negative because you don’t know what you are missing. If you’ve experienced it and you’re still negative, then the person didn’t know what the hell he/she was doing and you have my condolence, and sincere sympathy…but please don’t give up because there is someone out there (I’m sure), that will can and will turn your ass out!!!
Comment by sarasmile329 on 18 November 2008:
If you’ve experienced it, it’s a part of you having sex anyway, the answers is obvious (hell yeah). If you haven’t experienced it you are automatically negative because you don’t know what you are missing. If you’ve had it done and you’re still negative, then the person didn’t know what the hell he/she was doing and you have my condolence, and sincere sympathy…but please don’t give up because there is someone out there (I’m sure), that will can and will turn your ass out!!!
Comment by chum222 on 18 November 2008:
It’s the only way two people can fully say that they had a great session. Pleasing your partner to the fullest and I mean fullest, if you have to stay down there for half an hour. I promise you the end result will be to the ten. One person was looking for an oral expert, and I thought ok. That’s why so many men men cheat. And fewer women that admit it do too.
Comment by whadaspicgurl on 19 November 2008:
It is very intimate and extremely important to me…seeing as how I how an oral fixation….I couldn’t date a man for any length of time that didn’t not just like but love oral sex.
Comment by knew2this on 19 November 2008:
I enjoy giving and receiving oral. It turns me on to give it. I agree with everyone that men and women both need to be clean before receiving. You also have to be comfortable enough to guide your partner to do it the way you like it. I could not stay with a man long-term who didn’t do it. It’s a turn on if he holds on to my hair while I do it, and you know I’m gonna be grabbing his head! Oral is great!
Comment by cami1210 on 19 November 2008:
You can’t put everything in your mouth but You are not going to hold my intrest w/o it. And yes both partners need to be clean. It makes me wet when I please my partner orally and even wetter when he returns the favor. Oral is one of the most intimate things shared
Comment by goddess47 on 19 November 2008:
It is definetly more intimate. You are trusting someone to be up close and personal with a very private part of you. If its done right both partners will enjoy it immensely . Dont forget to protect yourselves and keep those areas clean.NOONE likes to eat garbage so please do not smell like one!
Oral sex is not considered to be a “normal” part of sex and it’s ‘bad’ or ‘unclean’ to closed minded people.(Is that what you were thinknig Party1? cuz I just know you were kidding…right?)
Comment by blue1 on 19 November 2008:
Is there sex without getting and giving oral sex???? for me there is no other way. If she isn’t clean and doesn’t return the favor I will move on. Love to watch the loss of control
Comment by cleta18 on 20 November 2008:
I think that sex in itself is great!!! Oral is fun but nothing is more initmate then being face 2 face with the one you love. I enjoy it and enjoy the fact that I’m making someone I care for happy
but, oral sex isn’t as passion filled as real love
making.
sorry boys
Cleta
Comment by blcknurse43 on 20 November 2008:
First and foremost,
I am a very private person. I find this question inappropriate and private. Let me just say, YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT!
Comment by 911medic on 20 November 2008:
to be blunt — I like oral sex — giving AND receiving. It IS very intimate.
And yes, odors and taste issues DO occur — I want to be clean as well as my partner — and hell YES I wanna be a glazed doughnut!
I love when a woman digs her nails in my hair and tells me ‘eat me oh LAWD I am gonna cum!’
Yet, many women thing the idea of oral pleasing is GROSS — case in point:
Meet a wonderful lady on here from St Maarten — as things naturally progressed,
she liked me to please HER orally — hours and hours of it — but to her — she was repulsed of the idea of sucking some ****
And on another note — any man that expects his knob to get waxed better be prepared to reciprocate and ladies, vice versa
Comment by SashaK on 20 November 2008:
Actually, I think kissing is far more intimate, but oral IS more intimate than intercourse. Intercourse is pretty easy to do for the most part, but you actually have to LIKE oral to give or receive it. Wouldn’t hurt to know what you’re doing also LOL!
It’s great for those of you who are private. We’re we’re all adults here and as such, we’re bound to have adult convos. Too personal? Don’t respond. I think the question would have been far more inappropriate if posted on…let’s say…a children’s message board!
Comment by SashaK on 20 November 2008:
WalrusOfLove: LOL…maybe “her thing” was
C-O-N-T-R-O-L (?)
Party1: You ARE joking, right? LMAO
Comment by blue1 on 20 November 2008:
SashaK. Of course you are 100% right. Kissing is more important than any part of sex and it is part of it.
Comment by beauty28 on 21 November 2008:
umm…just thinkin about it makes me giggle.
Comment by chaacha402 on 21 November 2008:
ooooooooo for sure!
Comment by afar64 on 21 November 2008:
Hey ya’all,i’ve enjoyed your comments and opinions about oral sex……….I mean oral sex is the most intimate thing that people in love can ever do.It’s so sensational and quite stimulating…let’s the heavenly juices flowing…..lol
I applaud Michelle’s comments………yup cleanliness should be paramount to both partiners,coz {hell no}no body wants to eat by a “dump site”
oral sex can be boring if it’s one sided,so both partiners need to be fully engaged in it to achieve the fullest pleasure……..
Comment by fromrwluv on 22 November 2008:
Pleasurable yes, more intimate - hardly. Since it is still somewhat taboo and can have domination/control flavor it may require some degree of beyond skin-deep connection to engage in it. True intimacy zone is beyond the “doing” part - it has an origin somewhere where words no longer have meaning, because they cannot adequately describe what you feel and it permeates everything you do… It is that special connection with another human being that makes life worth living, otherwise, it is just sex that can be better or worse, but never leaves you satisfied beyond sort period of time. Having oral sex in and of itself is not an indication of more “intimate” relationship.
In either case, I believe it is great as a part of foreplay, but not as a main course, unless the “chef” has some issues with the “entree”… LOL Oral sex, no matter how good it was never left me satisfied as a stand alone thing. I don’t understand some guys obsession with oral sex - they have completely opposite take on it.
Comment by ed2653 on 22 November 2008:
The intimacy is beyond measure when done right.The four women that have had the pleasure of my ablities in my life time would tell you that they had to push me away or pass out.There is nothing more beautiful then have her toes curl and loose her breath.And don’t forget her legs locking on your head.The idea is to give her joy first and foremost.
Comment by Retty on 23 November 2008:
Yes!!!!!!!!!! But for myself it is very, very erotic. I love to perform it on my man. To watch him, if he’s sitting to watch his behind come up off the chair a good foot or higher, it is such a turn on for me. The consistant eye contact as well. It is the most intimate. It is an art form.
Comment by salsera77 on 23 November 2008:
More intimate?
I don’t know about all that but
I’ll just put it this way.
I won’t be with someone who won’t!
…and of course it’s a given that
both parties need to be clean.
That’s par for the course.
Comment by ltsgt2gether on 23 November 2008:
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!I think oral sex is much more pleasureable and sastifying for both the giver and the receiver and I’m staying til both my tongue and she are worn out
Comment by curveegirl on 23 November 2008:
I definitely think oral sex is more intimate….I’ve noticed a lot of comments on here about cleanliness which makes me wonder… Why in the world would you be with someone who wasn’t clean anyway? I mean…maybe I’m naive…or just very particular…but I wouldn’t date a person who I didn’t feel was hygenicly clean…and I certainly wouldn’t have sex with them. I save oral sex for monogamous relationships. I love it…just don’t want to share that with just anyone…and don’t really understand why folks do. I feel that there has to be certain level of trust.
Comment by 02bigbird on 24 November 2008:
At first i thought oral sex was gross unless I was getting it but now i’m 25 an I think its its great I love to recieve an gtve
Comment by strongwoman8 on 24 November 2008:
come on girlfriend what you reading up on oral sex if you feel adults shouldnot dicuss it ,big people convo we will try to find something a little less dirty
Comment by strongwoman8 on 24 November 2008:
that response is to the lady who says it is inapproiate to talk about it
Comment by Balachandran on 25 November 2008:
It is also one of the best way to please your partner. Really multiple orgasm can be assured.
Comment by ashley720 on 25 November 2008:
I think it’s a great thing…and yes…both people need to be clean. I prefer for both of us to be shaven…it’s just better. Besides, that’s when my guy likes to just rub his face in it -giggles- and I like it when he’s shaven also..it’s just kinda gross to have a hair get in your mouth, right? lol But giving and recieving is nice…but you MUST know what you’re doing. If you’re down there for hours and I’m feeling nothing, I’m going to get annoyed…which happens in my present relationship. :/ But when I’m giving I love to feel him throbbing and feeling his veins and such…hmmm!
Comment by PhoenixBird on 25 November 2008:
Good Afternoon.
This is not normally a subject (I) would comment on, but it is an important one, which deserves to be explored, more than from a sensual perspective which seeks mere, immediate satisfaction.
As a person who seeks more in-depth relationships, I see two distinct ways to focus upon this subject.
First, the most obvious and superficial aspect of this act can be viewed as part of sexual love-making….and we can just leave it at that. It’s stimulating, pleasurable and just plain fun. Most adult couples will agree on this; even though it may be “taboo” in other cultures of our society and particularly among certain religious groups.
Clearly, there is no reason to offend the dissenters with something that seems too objectionable to them, for what ever their reasons may be.
Taste, feel, emotional insecurities, certain fears (justifiable and not) and of course old-school training and misunderstanding are all included in the objection column.
From the standpoint of religious objection, it is easy to see why many believe it is inherently wrong to practice this kind of sexual behavior; nor would any of us wish to disturb the conscience of anyone who feels that it is a sinful practice. (By the way, I know that includes many of you who are silently reading this right now.) It can be argued very powerfully, however, that the practice of oral sexual activity (is indeed) a very sacred and Scriptural practice….believe it or not.
It IS a very viable sexual expression and produces a vast variety of positive effects when performed with care and respect for each other’s deeper sensitivities.
Feel free to contact me if you have any comment you wish to share on this issue.
The second perspective or focus, to be considered (beyond the obvious physical pleasure) is one which, sadly is overlooked by the large majority of lovers…yet it is more relevant to their lives than they may ever guess. It deals with the “after-affect” of such sexual endeavors.
Men, we must realize that inside every woman, is a little girl (who needs our nurturing and care as well). Therefore, if we blatantly abuse or misuse our special woman, whether we realize it or not, we may injure the tender sensitivities of the woman we are (presumably) loving.
The result will be her inability to fully love us in return; though she may seem to,…on the surface. But in reality, we may kill the goose who has the ability to lay us a truly golden egg of eternal love and devotion.
Now,…if a one-nite-stand is all we have in mind,….this may not seem important. But if a valuable relationship is our ultimate objective, let’s as men, be mindful…and …considerate.
If, through our crassness (of the way we behave when exploring the powerful potential of a woman’s lovely physical body) we IGNOR the fact that she is ALSO an eternal, spiritual being (who is capable of unleashing upon us, an enormous positively charged energy from within her inner-person) —not just her precious and delicate feminine fluids….we will miss the greatest potential of her blessing upon us.
Instead, we will be left with the dust of her wonderful flesh, when our very lives might have been renewed and our spiritual strength immeasurably increased!
Additionally, we could have enjoyed some part much deeper and longer lasting and much more satisfying…which she alone can give us as her gift of love.
All this and more, if we could only have learned to respect the GIFT of LOVE. And…for what it’s worth,..this is the perfect season to explore this wonderful potential of love!
God bless you.
Comment by SciFiLover on 25 November 2008:
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhh…..yeah, OK.
Comment by sam1958e on 26 November 2008:
for both parties to give and receive, there is more intimate satisfaction given to each. personally, i truly thrive on giving my partner oral and being able to watch her total satisfaction,,,and the sweetest taste that could ever be enjoyed…if and whenever i ever get a new partner to give to,,,,totally enjoy giving and giving,,,,,
Comment by charmyluv on 26 November 2008:
I would love to get some right now am so horny from reading these post,seriously i dont think i would ever marry a man who doesnt do it. i love oral sex
Comment by deepdiver on 26 November 2008:
well ide love to meet nassy3,
wooo add chocalate ,,not to you as your chocalate,, best is to share a and lick softly and when she cums ,,hold her and do it again ,,,it will blow her mind ,,,,,,,,,,,,
Comment by IMOJMA on 27 November 2008:
Yes of course it is more inimate. But it does make the rest of the love making much more pleasurable. If he knows what to do LOL. Some men need to be taught as well as women. Open communication is good. I enjoy giving and receiving!!
Comment by sam1958e on 28 November 2008:
being able to give my partner oral sex, to me, is totally gratifying, and is, in some respect the totally most intimate that a man can have with the woman, his partner,,,and then in return, when she does me, her partner, it just sents me over the edge completely,,,,so awesome,,,,,just love it,,,,
sam.1958e at yahoo dot com
Comment by EbonyLicker on 30 November 2008:
For all you brown sugar princesses that have starring roles in my fantasies …
=====================================
Thoughts of her were playing like endless movies in his head. He couldn’t stop them. He didn’t want to.
These fantasies drove his passion for her … he knew that only the taste of her luscious brown skin between his lips would satisfy it.
He imagined holding her close … kissing her deeply and passionately … the scent of her hair … the feel of her warmth. It all came together for him. He knew it was right … and he wanted to give her the most intense physical pleasures she had ever experienced. He wanted it to be memorable for her.
After kissing and playing with her suckable toes he would start at the inside of her knee … taking in all that beautiful brown … savoring every inch of her long, sweet inner thighs … slowly but resolutely kissing, tasting and making his way up to the planned ecstasy.
Caressing and adoring her beauty he would approach her inner sanctum … enjoying its perfect shape, color, scent … anticipating the taste of sweet brown sugar.
She knew what was coming as he put his warm, wet lips gently against her labia … kissing them … teasing them … waiting for her to quiver before entering.
He held her hands firmly … told her how beautiful she was and how much he wanted this. She could feel his warm breath and the vibrations of his voice resonate inside her. His lips went deeper … holding open the doorway … as tongue went deeper still … reaching out searching for her most sensitve places. Licking … kissing … pushing in and out … around … inside … outside … everywhere … long lapping swipes … full mouth coverage with deep tongue penetrations … licking and teasing … as the waves of pleasure began to build.
She would squirm but there was no stopping the inevitable ecstasy that she knew was coming. She could feel his tongue so deep inside … then he would pull back to give her clitoris a lashing … it went on and on … until she felt like she would explode … when she went over the edge … her body rigid … her breathing exaggerated.
The most intense orgasm of her life had grabbed her and wouldn’t let go.
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Comment by hectorina smithe on 4 December 2008:
Of course, it is more intimate - and, the best way to pleasure a gal. Unfortunately, a guys cock when in the vagina, usually does not come into contact with the clit. My guy says that he loves it when he can feel the contractions of my orgasm on his mouth because then he knows for sure that he has given me pleasure.
Comment by SxyWhtTiger on 9 December 2008:
I have to agree with ashley720 and a few others too about this. I think it is both pleasurable and very intimate for both persons in the relationship. I also think that both partners must be willing to do it and not just one. I couldn’t be in a relationship if she wasn’t willing to do it. I really turns me on to orally satisfy my partner and would definitely do it for her. I agree both partners must be clean and that doesn’t mean just washing it but to also keep it clean shaven.
Comment by jacuzzi on 13 December 2008:
wel by reading all these stuffs make me eager to get one right now,i love giving it and receiving it at the same time.to me is the live blood of a sexual relationship, gals if u want it 24/7 go to gainako2009@yahoo.com i will be there waiting for u.
Comment by Maridoe on 26 December 2008:
Good Morning All, this is such a funny topic and the responses! Well some are not to be believed!
May I throw a few cents into the mix? There are few way’s to distinguish one’s lovemaking from the field, and Oral Sex is a very important way to offer pleasure to a special lover. There are so many way’s in which this act can touch his/her heart.
A very special Kiss, one that may require some hot conversation to establish ground rules for the shy. I think the benefits are many and that it is a special “treat” so exciting that I can’t imagine depriving myself of!
Conversation, information sharing and gathering is a good thing for all of us to do.
It’s my humble opinion, Mari
Comment by homesteader on 27 December 2008:
What more special Lover than ones own wife ?
Comment by homesteader on 27 December 2008:
or let ’s just talk about it . As talking is also oral sex.
Comment by dolly48 on 29 December 2008:
ok Stupid question, but while we are on the subject…
I’ve asked guys what does oral sex on a woman “taste” like? they just say it tastes good?
Is there a certain taste to compare it to?? ice cream? lolipops?
as far as cleanliness, i once read that the vagina has to be the cleanest part of a woman’s body because that’s where a newborn is delivered. Also, of course all should be clean always. I wont even shake a persons hand if their hands arent clean (so you know i wont do anything else)
I dont want to to stir up anything, but the gentleman whose girl did not allow him to perform oral sex on her…….are you sure “she” was a she??
Comment by homestud on 29 December 2008:
Oral sex can be a great stress reliever. When my lady comes home from a long day at the office, about once a week, I greet her at the door and she can tell I’m looking to spend a long time pleasuring her with my tongue. Once I start, she wouldn’t have it any other way … I could go on
Comment by homesteader on 1 January 2009:
With the invention of inside plumbling , hot water heaters and liquid soaps / I cannot even imagine anyone going to bed any less than clean . To answer a question : I do not know much about the taste , I do know that she enjoys it as much as I enjoy the privilege she allows me bye doing such n’ so / and you talk about the motion of the ocean . It also tickles me on the bottom . # 69 cum en toward the finish line .
Comment by homesteader on 1 January 2009:
And when I shake anothers hand / I immediately go wash mine , clean hands also carry germs .
Comment by homesteader on 1 January 2009:
I read a sign at the restroom entrance of a grocery store - it said employees must wash hands before returning to work , it caused me to laugh . You walk through an opening - no door no more / walk up to the urinal - unzip hang it out and pea /Hehe . When you wipe the head with paper to get drops away and stand back - it Flushes without touching any thing , rezip after putting it away . My daddy taught me not to pea on my own hand , so I do not wash hands before leaving / alas I am not an employee - I am a customer and I was taught . The customers always right . LOL
Comment by homesteader on 1 January 2009:
Ria , I am sorry that I missed thre topic at hand , because I have learned to read too fast eeeeewwwww!!!! in our house we do not wear swimsuits to bed either wwhhheeee ~~~~~***** and phewwww ahaaa
Comment by Ursus Maritimus on 8 January 2009:
I’m oral addict. Not only my wife, but the ladies I’ve been close before marriage never uderstand my addiction totally. I’m very clean, that is ok, but ladies not understand I need my lady not-showered.
I relally love strong, musky smell, the smell of Life. The best after long workday, juicy fluid, pee smell, anus earthy odour. Sweaty armpits smell.
Not “food” without smell for me!
Comment by Ursus Maritimus on 8 January 2009:
Many ladies are worried “fishy” smell in pussy.
Please forget it. It is your personal, strong aroma, no one else have the same. Let your partner to enjoy it!
Comment by tmax1963 on 12 January 2009:
I do it because I can concentrate on pleasuring my woman exclusively. It is the one time when it is all about her. the connection I feel orally to her is more intense, to me when she is enjoying it and allowing the sensations to wash over her. it makes everything that happens even better. And ladies, dont be so worried about your aroma… we know you have good personal hygiene or we would not be down there in the first place. If you taste like soap or baby powder i’m not gonna like it as much… it comes down to trust. that’s what makes it so special.
Comment by KME on 14 January 2009:
It is more private that intercourse.
Comment by babygirlTS on 1 February 2009:
It’s definitely more intimate because it’s a completely selfless act. Usually you’re doing it purely for the other person’s satisfaction and not your own.
Comment by YngCaramelQT on 1 February 2009:
It can be, it just depends on the people doing it.
Young kids these days are doing it in school, with strangers, for presents, etc. That being said, a lot of the time it is just a selfish act. Whether it be for bragging rights (Yes, some girls also brag on that) or for what possessions or benefits a person might get from the other for it.
With couples, it can be either/or also. If it’s done to please the partner, and not pressured or forced, then of course it’s very intimate, and sometimes more so than intercourse. If performed begrudgingly, then it is not intimate, even in a committed relationship.
I have to disagree with babygirlTS. It’s not always completely selfless or done purely for the other person’s satisfaction. A lot of people actually enjoy giving oral sex, and may crave it.
Even though in my experience, oral sex has been more intimate than intercourse, in a general sense it is definitely not.
Comment by rebita on 12 February 2009:
Depends on the level of intimacy in the relationship. If it’s just a rogue penis I will pass.
Comment by ninja39 on 9 May 2009:
No and excuse my french but Hell no. Not in today’s world. You have men and women running around performing oral sex on everyone that they meet. You even have young teens thinking that if they are not being penetrated or penetrating anyone they can still be considered a virgin if they are performing oral sex. I say what a crock of Boo Boo! When I lost my virginity my boyfriend wanted to perform oral sex on me and I was 17 at the time and I said no. I didn’t ever let him do that or I didn’t do it to him until I was 20 and that’s because I was afraid of it and I thought that you only did that to the person that you would be married to. So if we weren’t going to get married then I was going to save it for my husband. It should be a very intimate thing because just think about the act. You are making love to a penis or a vagine with your mouth and it shoudn’t be something that’s mechanical. I’ve had oral sex performed on me and I knew that he was doing it to me just like he probably did it to all the women he had been with. So enough said but to answer the question again, in this world oral sex is not intimate.
Comment by CUTIEPIE43 on 12 May 2009:
Oral Sex….. my take on the whole things is as follows. get down on it…. do whatcha feel. if my man likes it great, if i like it great.
Let’s consider a one night stand and oral sex for some it’s doable for others not so doable and that’s ok but i think each should let each other know their personal take on the subject befor they commit to the act.
My personal take on the whole oral sex act is i like it and i want more of it. the giving to my partner is a total turn on for me as i know i’m making him feel ohhhh soooo fine and and visa versa. now a gentlmen will want to take care of me first, but for me i need to look, feel and most of all taste and smell him before i go totally bonkers(meaning b4 i lose selfcontrol and am unable to return the favor). for me it’s like teasing myself. in my mind there is nothing more sexy then seeing my guy with a stiffie and yearning for me take him and letting me control him as i please. yes i know what i’m doing and am damn proud of that fact(sizzling hot). having said that my man should know what he’s doing as well as he will control me. if one really stops and thinks about it oral sex is really a journey as other aspects of love making are as well. so in short if your gonna take ya time and do it just do it right and for god sakes enjoy it to the fullest.
Comment by Kifarupembe on 15 May 2009:
There is nothing better than oral sex - especially at my advanced age. I am 85 years old and still enjoy sex but ‘it’ refuses to stand up for itself any more. I have a younger partner who I am still able to satisfy by giving her oral. She reaches an orgasm every time which is more than can be said sometimes with what might be called ‘normal sex’.