The other day, I google searched interracial sex… all I got was a massive array of porn sites (what was I expecting anyway?). Well I was hoping to get some insights on the above topic.
Have you ever had sex with someone outside your race? Would you be interested in having sex with someone of another race? Is interracial sex a taboo to you? This is a very controversial topic. “Why the hell would someone prefer to have interracial sex?᾿ most people may ask.
The truth of the matter is that the US is a culture obsessed with interracial sex – both positively and negatively. Going by the history of the slave era white people spoke with repulsion about interracial sex – even though many white men were constantly having sex with black women. In this “colorblind era᾿, people are still obsessed with interracial sex.
According to a poll done on the blog, majority (67%) of the people that participated in the poll said interracial sex is better than sex with someone within their own race and 15% said it wasn’t better. The rest either never had interracial sex or same race sex.
Adult sex dating among interracial singles is much in practice especially among liberal communities and long-term relationships or matrimony is quiet popular. With the internet being a general platform that brings all types of people, cultures and societies together, we need not emphasize the kind of catalyst it is for those interested in interracial dating and sex… it is a well-known fact.
Most people may decide to try out interracial sex just for the kick of it or out of curiosity. This has brought about statements like “once you go black you never go back᾿ among many others. Given the sexualization and stereotypes surrounding interracial sex, we find most people… especially in their teenage and college life engaging in interracial sex just to prove and disprove such statements.
Most people may not publicly say “interracial sex is: bizarre, disgusting, exciting, adventurous, morally repugnant,᾿ and so on. But when people get behind closed doors with their family and friends comments like “That black dude must have really been packing some heat below the belt. Why else would those white women be interested in him᾿ or “Only white women with no self esteem will get with a guy like that.᾿ When they go online to search for interracial porn, they are thinking it… and don’t get me started people expressing their thoughts with by leaving anonymous comments on blogs.
So what is wrong with enjoying sex with a person of other race?
For some reason, people think interracial sex is exotic and daring… especially when it involves Black men and white women and Asian women and white men. It’s almost like people believe that race is correlated with penis size and a person’s level of sexual desire. But are people who engage in interracial sex are deviant, rebellious, daring, gross, odd, oversexed, and ugly as most people believe?
If you’ve had interracial sex already, how good or bad were the encounters? Is it possible that they had everything to do with the guys’ or ladies’ performances, and not the person’s races?
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Americans in general aren’t very forthcoming or even sexual progressive people. Sex is a private stale robot dance enjoyed after achieveing stabilty and then forgotten like the milk on the counter til it ferments. “Honey you left the sex out again!”
“My friend once asked me, ” How do you know your are good at sex.” My answer is if you are enjoying it and aren’t embarassed you’re doing an excellent job. Sex is not a tool to get what you want or a chore, it is the ultimate expression of intimacy and indulgence. You don’t skim on your cars detailing, why rush the physical details of the one you love?
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Shocking. I can’t believe this is an issue.
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Personally i’ve only had interracial sex. So i wouldn’t be able to shed light on it. But i love what i do get. I love the way (black guys) skin feels. I love everything about it and its a huge turn on.
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i love the honesty of a woman who is not afraid of what she wants thats awesome rach
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I can’t believe this question, Noooo,ofcourse not it all depends on how well one know how to handle their woman.
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Good sex……when you both are finally finsihed and are laying on your backs in a massive pool of sweat and bodily fluids trying to move your limbs but can’t, trying to catch your breathe but can’t and your heart feels like it is ready to explode out of your chest…that is great sex!!!
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I couldn’t agree more, you described it best. It’s all about the person to me, not their race or their penis size. I’ve heard some women, black women included, say they want black men because of their size and I don’t know how that stereotype came into being. I’ve only been with one white guy, but I’ve dated other races and I’ve seen huge Asians and small black guys. Size aside, I’m always more interested in the type of person and how they treat me because that is more exciting. I want a man who cares about pleasing me too, not one who’s so impressed that he has a large penis.
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I have comparisons in my life and I must say that black men are more passionate…more detail oriented…..there is that rhythm to their lives that carries over into the bed room. They feel deeper and are more straight forward about their experience than the average white male. A woman needs to know she is appreciated. ..If you think about music for example…its those soulful songs from the black artists hearts that take you to those intimate places of passion and escape from the world around us. A black man knows how to get lost in that passion and take you with him. pjis looking.
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I AM A U.S. NAVY VETERAN WHO HAS HAD SEX WITH MANY WOMEN OF DIFFERENT NATIONALITIES. INTERRACIAL SEX IS NO DIFFERENT THAN SEX WITH YOUR OWN RACE. WHAT IS DIFFERENT IS THE INTIMACY LEVEL THAT YOU SHARE WITH THAT SPECIAL LADY THAT RAISES SEX INTO LOVE MAKING. NOW THAT EXPERIENCE CAN BE BREATH TAKING, EARTH QUAKING, AND BEAUTIFUL.
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Interracial sex rules!!Some people are affraid to try it,because they don’t want to be judged by today’s society;but they would love to have that experiences.Some will go to other places where nobody knows them to get what they really like.
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thank you skidivfly007!! Interracial /intraracial is all the same.it depends on the person. When you actually take you own self-imposed racial limits off and just enjoy the person not get some high because this person had sex with you–so you must be special cause you are a dffierent ethnicity– you will see its all the same and really enjoy some action! The real question is sex v. love. There is the sex where you think damn!!! that was great but you dont want to see them again and then there is the sex with feelings/bonding involved where you cant wait to up the ante!! that what I’m talking about!!!!
on another note… I find it interesting that in all these different artlcles about black women and white men dating the comments are about love, respect, understanding all that. No one is putting down the black man, in fact they big up the black man, but in the one article about dating white woman, it is a black man who puts down the black woman…..
why???
is that really necessary???
Anyway, he is just one man, so he does not speak for all black men, but I will point out that, that was the reason most quoted as to why black women are dating white men. to get the LOVE and RESPECT they are not getting from black men (men like the one on the white girl article…you know who you are).
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Sounds to me like the person writing this was lacking in his own sense of masculinity below the belt, and looking for someone to prop up his ego.. LOL. Seriously what a stupid question. Having dated many women of many races, black, white, asian, middle eastern, and enjoying a global business that keeps me in touch with so many vast cultures, only a fool would even entertain a lengthy discussion about this and even equate “love” or the best sex with physical characteristics of any race. Real bonding is responsible for the “best sex”. We’ve all dated those beauty queen gold diggers and realized how poor their performance was despite their endowments they got from Mom, they weren’t raised to be a real woman, more like a selfish teenager, and never make for a good lover, and that can be a woman of any race. Having had plenty of experiences with different women, stereotypes about vaginas and race is also silliness as much as it is with stereotypes about men… don’t assume all Asians are the tightest squeeze… you may be slightly disappointed… and as many of my black ex’s have informed me, their ex black boyfriends weren’t exactly packing much heat either… LOL. So when people get into any conversation about stereotyping any race, individuals, religious groups, they really are projecting their own insecurities. Intelligent people take sex as an individual act of bonding, and love is colorblind. And to the older white woman talking about “passion” and race.. that’s foolishness. Italian men may be the most passionate of all anywhere in the world.. take a trip to Italy.. LOL. People are always projecting their own wishes, there is never going to be any ‘fact’ behind opinion. To each their own. I have my preferences, but its not because the ‘sex is better’. I would be lying to say it is better with an Asian girl than a black or white woman. Depends on the person.
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i think so honestly much more of a turn on
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I have loved black women but the softness of a white woman is wonderful
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I love white women but haven’t found one interested in me that I have equal chemistry with…the journey continues…sigh
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I’m young, and personally, I never thought about having sex with someone because they were of a different “race” or because they were of the same “race”… O.o I’ve only had sex with one person, and he was of the same “race” but he was West Indian, but I didn’t have sex with him because he was the same “race”…I had sex with him because I loved him.
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I’ve had sex with someone of almost every race. I don’t even think about this queston about is interracial better. It all depends on the person you’re with really. I’ll admit, I like sex with black and latin women most. I just have more of an atttraction to them. But, determining who might be better, it’s not really worth analyzing in my opinion.
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it intensify the sex
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I think the quality of sex depends on the maturity of the person and it has nothing to do with
race or one’s culture. If you really care about someone, you will do your best to please
that person and vice-versa, and I think all of the myths and lies about interracial sex
and race is stupid!!! The negative comments are usually not true and some of the other
comments are over-exaggerated. It all depends on the person and what they are willing
to do or explore with you.
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The previous writer commenting on maturity and one other lady who discusses sex versus love, are dead on with their thinking. I am considerably older than many who have offered their comments, and women are looking for a man who understands how a woman feels and wants to feel in a loving relationship. For most of us, to just have sex for the sake of the physical act is a very temporary, non-committed act of gratification without the feeling of being bonded to one another with heart and soul. I have had that type of relationship in the past and the shallowness eventually takes its toll and wears off. I have chosen to be a member of this site because I truly wanted to broaden myself in terms of seeing all people as children of God with much to offer to the right person, irrespective of whatever our ethnicity may be. Soon after joining in December, 2011, I was contacted by a lovely woman who is approximately 25 years younger, yet my picture and profile had a magnetic quality to her and she wrote to me, hoping that she would not face rejection and that it would be positive. She just felt that I was the man whom she has been looking for all her life. From there, it has evolved into the development of a mature and loving relationship via live messenger, email, telephone, and soon we will meet in her city. She is ethnically black non-African and Hispanic/Latino, being from Havana and now residing in the U.S. Soon, she will become a citizen and has already received her Bachelors Degree in Engineering, both in Cuba and in the U.S. Building a wonderful, trusting, and loving relationship has been a feeling of our destiny and of God’s Will. All of the doubts, trepidations, and anxiousness have been replaced with trust, a strong faith, patience, understanding, and wanting a loving relationship based upon chemistry, and becoming true soulmates in one skin. We know that if all that is present in both of us, that the love she wants to give and express will be natural and spontaneous. To the lady who talked about sex versus love, that is something that I can relate to. My lady said that I don’t care about how large your endowment is because that is for those on the internet who only want the physical and to be impressed. I want to make love to you, naturally and spontaneously, and this is something that I will admit I have never experienced in my life, even in my 25 year marriage which I am convinced more and more now that it was arranged. We are so looking forward to meeting in person, getting to know one another, having long talks, feel the love, the excitement, the tingling, and just let that develop so that ultimately we will unite in a beautiful and passionate expression of our deep love for each other. Even though we have not yet met, our feelings have never wavered, and have grown stronger. This, we feel, is a Divine Presence in our lives, and that we are being tested to be patient, keep the love of God in our hearts, and all will result in a beautiful, committed, lifelong relationship. I wish everyone of you the very best in finding your partner, for I give thanks to God for directing my profile to her because I truly feel that it was meant to be.
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My first experience was when i was 19 and she was 36. I’m black and tall and she was hispanic and we attending the same college.
I dated a japanese woman and we have a son. Since i’ve broken up with her 17 years ago, i never looked back. I dated black women ever since. I don’t hate other races, i’m just not going to deal the bs that goes with IR dating
For me, the IR road is one road less traveled.
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wow!!! i can admit that i have had fancied interacial a long time but simply because its a fantancy .. i guess the adventure of it is the thrill and i guess its coz you are both different thats all
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All I can say is this, once you have tasted dark chocolate, is it hard to go back to milky bars.
Hot debate. What do you think?
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It’s not the race that makes the difference as much as it is the “culture”. I think the best sex I’ve had was with a European woman. Hungarian to be precise.
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I don’t know if its better, I can tell you one thing about sex, when comes the race card, SO ARE HIGHLY OVERRATED!!!!. Sex is about the person and sometimes cultures plays an important part of how they deal with sex.
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Errant nonsense surely someone is lacking in ideas.
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Sex is sex…interracial or not. I’ve had white guys and black guys and I will say so far the black guys have been better in the sex department than the white guys I’ve been with thus far.
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IMO it’s about what you’re familiar with, if I’ve been with bw more than non-bw, then I’d have to say sex with them is better because I’ve had more encounters with bw, so it’s a numbers thing. It also boils down to the number of serious relationships verses “pillow friendships” because I think sex is more intense when intense feelings are shared between the two people.
Dealing with IR situations you may wonder is this other person just taking you for a “test drive” while looking to satisfy a curiosity based on some prevailing sexual myth, but with a person from your own group that thought never crosses your mind because more than likely they already “know what that’s about” (LMAO)!
When two people (despite if they’re an IR couple or not) have that special something between them and they dance that most intimate dance, how wonderful it is as long as they both know how to stay with the beat!!!!!!!!!!
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You know what they say, “Once you go white, you’ll know it was right”.
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uhhh yes…….next question?
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I like the way the skin of white men feel, so I would have to say that sex with them is the greatest. That’s just me, though.
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It’s all in the person. If the attraction is there and everything falls in place, race really doesn’t matter. Great sex can come in all kinds of packages. Though I will admit that when something is more forbidden or not the norm, it can be a real turn on. I love the color contrast of a white man against my skin when making love.
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Um, Is Chris Brown available? No, seriously I’ve got to say I have never had a chance with black men because I only dated white guys and I had a very strict religious upbringing. I lost my virginity at 23. I was deeply in love with him and he taught me about sex. He got me to open up and stop being ashamed of my body. He was amazing and Italian!
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Sex should be done after marriage.. and just in case you fail to keep your virginity for your future husband , just tend to not engaged sex again for Sex is only for married couple.. ashamed not for you lost your virginity , God is a forgiving God. you knew inside yourself that Sex is not aproppriate thing without the blessing from God who giveth us the breath of existence so I think we should value and live this life through doin things in accordance of His will and not by our own, lust.. peace..God speed everyone
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