He Lost the Game, but Won at Love

Posted by Leticia, 16 Feb 16

Breanna’s stint on our site was her first attempt at online dating. And, like many first-timers, she had her doubts. “I was always skeptical about meeting someone online,” she admits. “But I was still looking…”

She’d been on and off the site for a couple of months when she spotted it. “That smile,” she marvels. “It was that smile [that got my attention].” The member with the username “Nshaw34” had a grin she couldn’t get enough of, so she sent him a Flirt.

The pearly whites belonged to Nolan, another newcomer to online personals. “I was just looking for the right person,” he explains. “But I wasn’t confident at all when I first started.”

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Nolan had only been online for a few months when he suddenly got the Flirt from “Charesebre19” (Breanna), who sparked his interest the moment he saw her profile. “Her eyes were beautiful!” He exclaims.

Nolan didn’t hesitate to let her know how much he was interested. “He actually gave me his number,” laughs Breanna. “I suppose we were ready to meet for a date, since we had been texting nonstop every day!”

They had their first date at Dave & Busters, the restaurant famous for its arcade games. This was a perfect place for Breanna to prove her skills. “I won every game we played!” she says proudly. Nolan had no problem with that, jumping in with a quick, “You mean you CHEATED on every game we played!” The newly minted couple laugh at what has clearly become an affectionate joke between them.

Although she was a little nervous at the start, Breanna’s first thought on finally meeting face-to-face was, “Wow, he smells really good.” Nolan admits to being tense, too, but the feeling dissipated. “It went really well,” he says to recap the evening. “I had actually thought that she might not show up...or even be real!”

But Nolan’s dream girl turned out to have substance after all, and they were both “100% sure” they would go out again. If their first date was a success, subsequent meetings only brought them even closer together.

When asked if there’s anything he appreciates about Breanna that didn’t come across in her profile, Nolan has to think about it a moment, since he’s loved everything about her from the beginning. “She was very caring,” he concludes. Breanna responds, “He’s really someone I can’t see myself without!”

Surprisingly, Breanna confesses that originally she thought that Nolan wasn’t her type. “I would say he’s almost everything I WOULDN’T have gone for!” But it was that smile that did it, and today she’s very glad she noticed it. Nolan admits he didn’t have to struggle too hard to imagine them being together. “She’s pretty similar [to my type],” he says.

Although they were lucky enough to not have to overcome any real obstacles as they became a couple, both will admit to something when asked. For Breanna, it was “accepting his goofy side as well as his serious side.” Nolan simply states, “Communication.”

Finding love has changed the both of them. Breanna says she’s learned that it’s okay to lean on someone a little, and to let go of a little independence, particularly when it might be holding you back. Nolan reports that his new relationship has given him “a positive outlook” on life.

They both want to share a bit of what they’ve learned in their search for love on the Internet. “Keep your head up and stay focused,” advises Breanna. “It’s new and scary, but your other half is looking for you, too!” Nolan agrees, adding, “It’s difficult and frustrating, but stay positive, and be patient.”

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  1.   Marade says:
    Posted: 05 May

    What matters most is the love

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  2.   Tyna123 says:
    Posted: 19 Jan

    Wonderful am hoping to find my Mrs right some day.

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  3.   B.panther says:
    Posted: 08 Dec 18

    Congratulations

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  4.   B.panther says:
    Posted: 08 Dec 18

    Oh wow

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  5.   Kodoshe says:
    Posted: 21 Nov 18

    Woow I love you guys am praying all time to meet a Man of my dream here, and I will love him with all my heart am really praying daily to meet my husband here ,and I really love this site is a real site which open poeplee there real life may Almighty God bless me with a God fearing Man here. All the Best.

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  6.   matshu says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 18

    Congrats,may the good Lord bless your relationship

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  7.   Suechris says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 18

    Congregation! May god continue to blessed your relationship

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  8.   sheilawes says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 18

    Congrats

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  9.   sheilawes says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 18

    Congrats to you love birds...

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  10.   dfkk says:
    Posted: 01 Oct 18

    enjoy your love wish you happiness one day I will find my love one have a happy family

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  11.   Mwikali96 says:
    Posted: 23 Mar 18

    So nice..... Hope to get a real man who will love me and have children together... A good family

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  12. Posted: 04 Feb 18

    Interesting love story. We all look forward to meeting our special sparkle some day. Its the only thing we live for

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  13.   Moonbug714 says:
    Posted: 24 Jan 18

    So wonderful!! I'm hoping to find my "Mr. Right" too!! You guys look beautiful together. Stay blessed!

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  14.   Annex17 says:
    Posted: 15 Jan 18

    Wow that was very great of her. I wish them a happy new start of theIr lives.

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  15.   Tatuonea says:
    Posted: 30 Dec 17

    Congratulations to you all but always remember marriage life not easy so don't give up on what you have started....praying to God to bless me too

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  16.   jimmy3112 says:
    Posted: 30 Dec 17

    hi....

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  17.   jimmy3112 says:
    Posted: 30 Dec 17

    hi....

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  18. Posted: 02 Sep 17

    Congrats!! Best wishes

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  19.   LADear says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 17

    Splendid!

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  20.   Badiday says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 17

    Congrats to all couples hope to find love ones someday i pray to god .god bless .

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  21.   EvvT4 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 17

    It is so good to meet someone that will love you and you will love him too.

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  22.   Julein says:
    Posted: 03 Aug 17

    Congratulations to the couple I hope to find my true love too

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  23.   cillia1 says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 17

    Wow, beautiful couples congratulations to u guy's

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  24.   Zukism234 says:
    Posted: 26 Jun 17

    Congratulations It is the Lord's doing

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  25.   bracky23 says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 17

    wow wow wow..this amazing..congratulations!!!!!!!!!

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  26.   Progman72 says:
    Posted: 18 Jun 17

    Just because they found each other doesn't mean they'll stay together. Relationships are very difficult these days and it's hard to find the right person for a long-term commitment like marriage. I'm just being realistic about it

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    • bracky23 says:
      Posted: 20 Jun 17

      u r right

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    • HotStel32 says:
      Posted: 14 Oct 17

      True sometimes if it was meant to be by God the relationship will go through storms to get stronger

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    • Mariadiana says:
      Posted: 03 Jan 18

      How about You? I am looking for marriage. Maybe You Yourself don't like for longterm relationship and marriage

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    • Vepsv says:
      Posted: 08 Oct 18

      If one never try u will never knw

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    • Maypapabi says:
      Posted: 10 Dec 18

      Yes but atleast they have found each other and they are together now so let's leave the rest for the future to decide ..

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    • DassahSexy says:
      Posted: 22 Dec 18

      Trust me is because we look at the wrong things in someone cause trust me i have been on the site for not too long most of the guys are not serious always asking for nude pic why? if someone sees wat he likes why not go for it without no evil intension ,am serious minded i just hope i find some one interesting like wise you dear success ❤

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    • Candy1114 says:
      Posted: 06 Feb

      True

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  27.   Janocop says:
    Posted: 03 Jun 17

    Very nice couple...

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  28.   83carl says:
    Posted: 31 May 17

    Some people are so lucky, some men here never want to meet anyone, they just want you to send them nudes. I hope I get lucky sometime.

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  29.   Tidaps says:
    Posted: 13 May 17

    Hmmmmm, wonders shall never cease, big congratulations to both of you. Mine is next!!!!

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  30.   Omkgo says:
    Posted: 07 May 17

    They are so beautiful couples

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  31.   mabhell says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 17

    congrats 2 all couples

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  32.   zanada says:
    Posted: 24 Mar 17

    Congrats to all the couples who found there soulmate.

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  33.   felieva says:
    Posted: 10 Feb 17

    congrats to all people I hope we have a miracle also will come true

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    • Siroro-meii says:
      Posted: 06 Jun 17

      ho,you just beautiful mams.good looking i love the way you look. am single dad of one baby boy my son is 5yrs old and am working and staying in lihir island PNG

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  34.   Anitah8 says:
    Posted: 12 Jan 17

    Congrats waiting on my miracle too

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  35.   DANNILO says:
    Posted: 26 Nov 16

    Cute couple indeed...all the best

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  36.   45honey says:
    Posted: 23 Nov 16

    Congz happy for u i pray to God to show me my real love

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  37. Posted: 16 Nov 16

    I Haven had alot of luck with dating so I just gave up on finding that one that take's my breath away when were together

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  38.   Wylliz4u says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 16

    God bless your new journey of marriage all the best guys

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  39.   Dorall says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 16

    God bless you guys....

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  40.   Lembeli says:
    Posted: 03 Oct 16

    Happy for you I'm so inspired

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  41.   roseymary says:
    Posted: 18 Aug 16

    Oh that wonderful to be pensend end wait for the real love wao congratulate

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  42.   Santyn says:
    Posted: 17 Aug 16

    God's plans n love.am happy for u

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  43.   bowbow2007 says:
    Posted: 08 Aug 16

    happy ending.God bless your union.just like u, am patiently waitin for my vanilla

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  44.   merzsnopy says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 16

    Ausome storry. And that's so true think positive.like me Im allwys hopefull someday I culd found one.god blees you guys:

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  45.   shillameg says:
    Posted: 05 Jul 16

    Great stories am inspired

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  46.   Naleya says:
    Posted: 02 Jul 16

    So interesting.. I like it. God bless both of you

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  47.   chipin says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 16

    glad to see hope to find mine soon

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  48.   Aaron123.-_ says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 16

    nice one

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  49.   precious-3 says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 16

    Blessings to both of YOU, in all respect each other, put Jesus first

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  50.   Anapash says:
    Posted: 30 May 16

    I also feel jelous.. they r a marvelous couple

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