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Why Ghosters Always Come Back and How to Deal with Them
Ever been ghosted? It’s like a dating riddle wrapped in a mystery. You think everything's going great, and then poof! They vanish. But what happens when the ghoster unexpectedly resurfaces, breathin... read more

5 Japanese Traditions That Strengthen Relationships
When I first started coaching interracial couples, I noticed something interesting about my clients in relationships with Japanese partners. These couples often described practices that kept their bon... read more

The ‘Picky Problem’ in Dating: How to Break Free
We've all heard it a million times: "I'm just too picky when it comes to dating." The pickiness predicament is a common theme among both men and women, often cited as a barrier to finding love. But be... read more

Why You Might Want to Try Dating Multiple People
In today's dating world, options are aplenty, especially with the rise of online dating. It's not uncommon to find yourself seeing multiple people at once or exploring different connections simultaneo... read more

What Your Laugh Says About You
Ever wondered what your sense of humor reveals about your personality? Recent research uncovers four distinct humor styles and the fascinating insights they offer into who we are and how we relate to ... read more

Why Your First Message Matters More Than You Think
Hey beautiful people! Leticia here, and today we're going to talk about something that can make or break your online dating success – that crucial first message. As someone who's helped countless co... read more
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How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game
How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game You've found someone special, and you want to make sure you're being the best partner you can be. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a relationship or deepening your connection with a long-...
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Let Your Dating Profile Pictures Do the Hard Work for You
Let Your Dating Profile Pictures Do the Hard Work for You Crafting the perfect dating profile is like curating a gallery of your life, where each picture is a brushstroke telling a story. From choosing the right angle to capturing genuine moments, your photo...
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How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart
How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart I invite you to think of the last time you were emotionally invested in a man. It could have been a promising prospect you met online, it could have been your boyfriend of five months, it could have ...
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You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men
You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself from that ever happening again. And to protect yourself from being hurt by a...
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You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally!
You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally! Have you ever felt stronger about someone than he felt about you? Have you ever been in a relationship where you were always worried about being dumped? Have you ever longed for someone’s affections...
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How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men
How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on?” If yo...
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My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do?
My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do? How does one deal with a man who has a history of having sex with prostitutes? Should one just let the past go? Well, here is one an email from one of our concerned readers... I met a man online la...
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Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis?
Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis? Does size really matter? One of our readers is wondering if she should point this out to the great man she just met. Here is her email... I met a great guy on a dating site two months ago and we’ve ...
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How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man?
How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man? One of our readers emailed us this question. It read... Evan, I have read your advice on non-committal men. I have done everything wrong. Sleep with him when he wants, clear my schedule for him, revo...
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Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s?
Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s? One of our male readers was wondering... "I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. I thought that ...
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Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad
Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog: Women who think that eve...
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How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good?
How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good? I received a question from one of our readers, Jennifer on moving on after a break up. It read: Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years and I’m a big fan. Your advice has helped me...
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The Most Important Dating Advice You'll Ever Hear - Don't Do Anything
The Most Important Dating Advice You'll Ever Hear - Don't Do Anything One of our readers, Robyn, dropped us an email which read: I am a 33 year old single woman. I seem to always attract “great guys”, and we always have a lot of fun. But anytime I want to gently “...
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What You Can Learn From a Real-Life 'He's Just Not That Into You' Situation
What You Can Learn From a Real-Life "He's Just Not That Into You" Situation Here is an email from one of our readers, Charlene: I am 41, divorced with two kids. Three months ago, I met someone, 38, no kids, never been married. We exchanged phone numbers, went out a couple tim...
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(My Gift to You!) The 8 Massive Mistakes You're Making in Relationships
(My Gift to You!) The 8 Massive Mistakes You're Making in Relationships Have you ever thought there was something wrong with you? After years of dating, it feels like there are only 3 outcomes – all of them bad. He wants to have sex, but doesn’t want to commit. He ...
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Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You're Looking for a Long Term Relationship?
Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You're Looking for a Long Term Relationship? Melanie is going through a phase where she just wants to have hookups or just get laid. Here is my advice for her...
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