She finishes by herself after they make love!!!
"Ria! What could I be doing wrong?" asked a friend of mine - Ron. The thing is, her girlfriend always takes matters into her own hands after the two get it on.
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"If you are not getting her to the finish line, what do you expect?" I teased.
This happens to in a lot of relationships but in Ron's case, the girlfriend doesn't even try hard to hide it. It's like she wants to be caught finishing the job solo. Its like she wants Ron to know that she aint getting no satisfaction. So clearly, this chick has been faking it with him.
Well, all I told Ron was:
If the girl aint trying to hide her touchy moments, then it really means she wants to be caught... she is passing a message across. CATCH HER!! So next time you hear some heavy incoherent breathing or feel some hips wriggling under the sheets, slip your hand, offer to join in... get her to that finish line. If she seems embarrassed assure her that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Then tell her if there is anything she wants more from your sex lives that she aint getting, all she has to do is ask.
More advice for Ron? Help my pal people!
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cre8tivelass says:Posted: 04 Jul 13Three things here: 1) One's mind is the greatest sex organ. If that's not stimulated, nothing else is. Every sexual message is processed in the mind. 2) She's an adult! If there's something she feels she's not getting then she should speak up. A man is not responsible for getting you to the "finish line." She has a much bigger role in whether she climaxes than he does. Many women don't know their own bodies. How do they expect someone else to know exactly what they need or want and when? If he needs directing to get him to the right places, then that's her responsibility. If it's not what she needs/wants she needs to speak up or how else will he know? 3) Terrible lack of communication. Makes me think they shouldn't be hitting the sheets. She seems to immature or timid to say anything and what has the boyfriend said TO her about it? Have they discussed this between themselves at all?
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manowine says:Posted: 11 Jun 13Watching a woman "finish herself" can be quite enlightening. It may provide a clue or clues as to what way(s) she needs to be touched and felt.
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Electro7 says:Posted: 01 May 13HA! I say in most cases it a man maakes love to her mind FIRST, her body will sure to follow... and believe me, she'll come back for more!
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Al says:Posted: 06 Apr 13
Finishing Solo; is a common thread among women who require more and this can be seen when one is older and their partner is the same age or older, quite the opposite sometimes in sex drive and ability to maintain an erection (Viagra included). So, one almost have to rely on lotions, potions and toys to facilitate an ending or one might be very dissatisfied and began to look for that younger man whom have all of the right moves and the energy to go with. Sexual peaks are cruel, most women can go longer and stronger in middle age, and some men are just ready for the couch and a potato with a bottle of beer. Very interesting dichotomy call life in the middle ages. Got to love the humor in this.
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missjai2002 says:Posted: 05 Apr 13Great article and great comments. I can relate to this article personally. I have experienced not finishing by the end of the first lap...:) FELLAS. Please remember woman reach clitoral and an internal climax, both achieved in different ways. A womans body is filled with so many I call them ITM spots. (In The Mood-ITM). Foreplay is not just oh touch me, oral sex, get it in. Its so much more than that, some woman with very high sex drives, might need a visual stimulant, maybe a little dirty talk, a massage...or how about making dinner...nothing sexier than a man in an apron, throwing down in the kitchen. Stimulate a womans mind...and her senses...and you've got her. Please also remember TOYS....oh yeah toy shopping amongst 2 adults is an erotic and sexy experience....guranteed to turn you on. I love to shop for shoes...my ex hated going with me....but the adult store...great place for a couples outing....:)
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jod212 says:Posted: 02 Apr 13
Well Nordicia, you know there are women who are selfish as well... But blame doesn't get you anywhere, especially when it comes to love (if we're discussing lust, then that's another story) I prefer to take the high ground and assume the former. In any case, in order to get the most out of a sexual encounter focusing on the other person as well as one's self only enhances the experience (as with most things in life). As for ACutAbove, you are one funny Dude, love the pun...silly man ;o) It may be that these individuals are limited in their experience and that's ok, at least the question is out there. Also its an opportunity for others to benefit from the info, damn-it everyone have a good time!!!
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ACutAbove says:Posted: 26 Mar 13Just to be Fair, some of us Men are quite Unselfish Lovers too. In terms of "Getting her to the Finish Line", think about this - On a straight track, the race is over once the finish line is crossed. But if you think of the racetrack as one like Daytona, you may cross it many times before the race comes to an end. Why not give her a HEAD START, pleasing her orally, and let her get a few Laps in before you even start your car??? (Yes there was PUN INTENDED) Personally I love to see a woman touch herself. Rather than be threatened or hurt by it, join, help, and encourage. Your woman's orgasm is completely different than ours would be and she'll be much happier with you sharing it with her... Rather than seeing a problem, it looks like a great opportunity to me.... Good Luck
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Nordicia says:Posted: 22 Mar 13
I think Ron is my ex, no joke!! The thing is some men can be very self-fish lovers, and they are in fact not even aware of it unless it's point out. Some also don't understand that it takes a woman 15-20 mins longer to climax then a man. Hence, foreplay is so so important! I would have hope she did, as I did and nothing came of it...well except like her I too took matters in my own hands lol. That surely did not go over too well, point in case men need to listen to the cues of their lover! Ron needs to join in next time or more foreplay! Nice article, short and sweet !
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jod212 says:Posted: 22 Mar 13
She's not hiding BECAUSE she want's you to join in on the party, Ron. Also, she may not be hiding anything. Many women achieve multipal orgasms, think of it as waves of water crashing on the shore...some are softer than others. More than likely, she's seeking the "big one" but shared a smaller one with you. No one is wrong in this situation. There is potential for an even closer experience between you two, if you relax and enjoy the moment. If you are willing to be naked with a woman, you should be open enough to have a conversation about fulfilling each others needs and desires. It could bring your relationship to a deeper more profound level of closeness. This could make your relationship amazing, loving and wonderful; so, don't personalize it negatively as this is an opportunity for growth. Good luck!!!
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This girl feels him but not that much because he aint doing his thing properly he got no finishing off touches and that's when she wants him all in fool force and totally! He fails!