Emotional instability = Great sex?
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Jack Donaghy: I need your help, We were having sex at The Palace, she told me she loved me. Liz Lemon: You did it, again? Jack Donaghy: Well it was quick and in the meat locker, that's ok, right? Liz Lemon: What is it with you men, you're like you are junkies or something. Why can't you just say no? Jack Donaghy: Lemon, let me explain something to you that you could have no way of knowing. Emotionally unstable women are fantastic in the sack, I mean their self-loathing translates into... never mind. I've got to get out of this.
– from the TV series 30 Rock, Season 3
Watching that episode reminded me of a friend of mine who was also a junkie for some woman. When I tell you she was a nut case, trust me … she really was. But much as this pal of mine wanted to free himself from her, it was like trying to run away from some magnetic pull. And all the time the woman did something crazy like burn all his shoes, somehow it all translated into some wild sexual episode and the cycle began all-over again.
This got me thinking... Why is it so hard to free ourselves from toxic relationships? Are emotionally unstable women (and men for that matter) too good in bed to let go of? Would you be glued to such a walking time bomb just for the sex?
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funandsexyone says:Posted: 17 Oct 09
I agree great sex will keep you in bs longer. However, great sex is what makes people "more" emotional about the relationship and pushes them over the edge if they are a little crazy to begin with. So you will never really know how crazy someone is until you have great sex with them ie turn them out lol. Because the great sex is what makes them lose it. For instance I waited to have sex with this one girl got to know her for over 2 months and she was perfectly sane. Once we had sex and I turned her out she went crazy. lol So I wasted 2 months when I should have just had sex with her and found out in the first month she was crazy lol. To be honest I don't mind alittle crazy if the sex is GREAT !!! Better than average sex with a sane person lol.
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rarestgold says:Posted: 15 Jul 09Amen to that takinitall! and First_time09 you can have your [fantasy] cake and eat it too you know. If you take the time to find the right partner they will make all your dreams and fantasys come true and they won't burn down your house (smile).
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bellara says:Posted: 15 Jul 09
takinitall: the 1st two line is the perfect answer
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takinitall says:Posted: 14 Jul 09Great sex, will keep you in BS longer than anything else. This is why it's important for people to get to know each other before going physical. You can learn alot about a persons character by refraining from sex with them.
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first_time09 says:Posted: 13 Jul 09
Like Homesteader said don't watch tv or movies for that matter. We always find ourselves wanting or craving to fulfill some erotic fantasy as depicted on the big screen all while forgetting that reality isn't at all scripted. But, being human we can't really learn a lesson unless we've been through the process. And for those whose lives are stuck in park in a toxic relationship I guess they are just holding on out of HOPE...hope that one day whatever relationship it is, it will get better.
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WHURR says:Posted: 11 Jul 09I used to love a crazy chick...all dudes believe that they 'gonna tear it up'... I guess in my sick perverted mind they will! Then...while smiling in the sick fantasy...2 words come to mind.............. Lorena Bobbitt I'll keep searching for sane ones thank you very much!
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homesteader says:Posted: 10 Jul 09
Don't watch television . / Alas do know that Marvelously Magnificent Passionately Hot Sex is all in the Mind . Toxic is they way they make you feel . It is however in the way you make another feel in order to Make Love
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