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First strip down – What does he think about your naked body?

Posted by Ria, 11 Jan

naked bodyDo you ever get nervous about stripping down with a new man? Most women worry so much about what the man she just met thinks about the first night they have sex or moments before they do have sex. We obsess so much about matching bras and panties and stretch marks. But do men really care about this stuff?

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A friend of mine told me the first time he gets to see a new girl naked is the most magical moment of all because he gets to see the lots of curves that were previously hidden… you know… do a quick compare and contrast between how he pictured her naked and the real deal. He said, even when things appear to be less awesome than pictured, they don’t really pose a problem. “Turns out, most women I have seen naked looked better naked than clothed. And even when some things don’t, she is still naked – which better than her clothed, right?”

I would like to think that men do care about what’s underneath because not all surprises can be positive. Imagine being attracted to a hot and busty woman only to realize that she was wearing some heavily padded bra that made her look much curvier in clothes. To this, he told me men are visual optimists: they tend to naturally hop over the less-than-perfect stuff and focus on nothing but the best. So ideally, those stretch marks we worry about don’t exist. So what about an unkempt you-know-what? That enough to make a man stop?

What do men really think about during the first strip down?

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  1.   NOPLAYER says:
    Posted: 31 Jan 11

    @ kissime - Are you telling on yourself? LMAO

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  2.   eddyready/bigten says:
    Posted: 31 Jan 11

    @Kissime Baby girl,if he does all that your in trouble! Better call 911.Poor fellow done about had a heart attact ! To much of a good thing can kill a man ! Lol ! EddyReady/BigTen

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    • kissime says:
      Posted: 01 Feb 11

      Behave gentlemen :) Died a Happy Man?? I can't believe I'm writing this. OMG!!!

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  3.   kissime says:
    Posted: 25 Jan 11

    “First strip down – What does he think about your naked body?” He's speechless from Drooling...then he holds me so tight-he can't let go. He starts speaking in tongues from a heighten state- Then goes into Hypnosis.

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  4.   NOPLAYER says:
    Posted: 24 Jan 11

    "show'em whatcha workin wit" "shake it like a salt shaker" "drop it like it's hot" "walk it like a dog" "bounce it like ball" " ride it like bull"! (bounce music) Opps my bad, I forgot where I was! LMAO

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  5.   nafahamu says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 11

    Am I strange? I actually find stretch marks really attractive. Heaven forbid a real woman! To me the face is always more important, if we're going down the visual route. What is hiding underneath is not much of an issue. If the woman is comfortable in her own skin, then that is a major turn on no matter what. Ladies out there, don't be afraid, when it comes to that part of the relationship we'll be too worried about our own imperfect bodies to worry about yours, and if we love the woman, as long as she's not packing something extra Jerry Springer style, we'll be happy :)

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  6.   Oldschool56 says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 11

    LMAO..so I guess I can feel okay about taking two showers...sometimes I take one in the morning and if Im going to be uhhhh naked in front of my current man I will coax him into a shower with me before the big event. There is always a way to con...I mean talk a guy into being naked with you...and he is probably just as worried as you are..that is until you have been together a while. I cant get over someone thinking that body odor would be a good sign. But then men have been doing that for centuries!!

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  7.   NOPLAYER says:
    Posted: 19 Jan 11

    IMO, it depends on how much value aand importance he places on the appearaance of a women's body. More than likely I'll see more of a woman with her clothes on than off anyway so it's not a big deal with me. I don't think most mature men are so wrapped up in a woman having the perfect body that they'll reject a women if she doesn't match up to the women in the videos or on the cover of some magazine, most of us know that computer imagery plays a big part in these pictures and videos, so what we're seeing isn't 100% real anyway. Truth be told, if a woman had the perfect body (big breast, round booty and killer legs) after seeing the same body and having sex with her over a period of time the initial jaw-dropping excitment will have subsided somewhat and besides I'm trying to have a relationship with a women and not a pair of boobs or thick legs but if you cant relate to soap and water I cant relate to you. LOL

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  8.   4everdreads says:
    Posted: 19 Jan 11

    I love my breast I think they are my best asset. I think men who date thick in the thighs women should not be surprised by a few bumps and such. you could see from my photos that I am not the thin girl. so I think men will tell you, if they like curves or not. I have curves, and I am good looking, you are good looking, so that should be a plus for the both of us. I agree, body odor is a def. turn off. That also includes bad breath and bad teeth. ugh!!

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  9.   edna says:
    Posted: 11 Jan 11

    Yea its true that men don't look after womens stretch marks or matching bras and panties. But there are 2 things men are after. First is the CURVES. Men of this days are not blind. They know what they are buying in the market. Before a man will said yes i need her. He has already naked her with his eyes. So more or less he knows how she is going to be on her first strip. The surprise that will make a man to stop? is the BAD PRIVATE PART ODOR. I will stop here too...:-)

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