Why he is “small”
Most of us (men and women alike) obsess about a man’s size. And I am not talking about his height or shoe size … his package. Well if you are always wondering why his member is small, here is why: mommy’s exposure to chemicals.
New research says that if a pregnant mother is carrying a boy, chances are; exposure to chemicals will cause the boy to be born with a smaller penis. The New York Post reports that these are chemicals called “endocrine disrupters” which are found in fire retardants, cosmetics, food wrappers and baby powder. These chemicals interfere with hormones in male vertebrae animals. Which means if your man has a small junk, it probably got stunted while he was still in the womb.
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“This research shows that the basic male tool kit is under threat,” says Gwynne Lyons, a former government adviser on the health effects of chemicals.
In recent years, wildlife and people have been exposed to more than 100,000 new chemicals and according to the European Commission 99 percent of them are not satisfactorily regulated.
Now you know … if you are stressed about your “size”, consolation is that the length or girth of your penis has nothing to do with your masculinity. Plus you have one more thing to blame on mommy. ;-)
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1tiny1 says:Posted: 28 Jun 10Where do people get this from, personally I have never had any complaints about my men , but then I suppose I wouldn't would I ?
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Bellara says:Posted: 22 Apr 10
if you are packing a 10inch bad boy but you dont know how to power that machine of yours then its as "good" as a 2inch or 0 inch (if such exsist lol). but if have a "4 inch or so" and a master at gyrating your hips, chances are>you are more than likely to satisfy your woman a lot better than a stallion who can't power his machine.
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Billy_C says:Posted: 10 Apr 10Well i am definitely one white dude that definitely disproves the idea that white guys don't got big packages. Feel free to shoot me an email on site for photographic proof. LOL...
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elegantbc says:Posted: 15 Jan 10
I think that it totally depends. First size does not matter as much when you are in love with someone. Some of my best lovers were slightly below average. But they knew this and therefore worked it...really work it. The men who have been more endowed tended to not try as hard at times. This was unacceptable and therefore we had to have a discussion. I frankly do not always enjoy huge penises, I don't like not being able to sit for days.
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Truth says:Posted: 19 Dec 09
It's all down to women!!! They are to blame! Genetics yes! Women are the ones who making son's with small penis! Stop it stop it now, ABORT!! The child will live a life of misery just so you can bring life and carry a baby for 9 months so you can have people fuss around you and experience pregnancy how selfish are the female race!!Dragging children into the world knowing full well what will happen to them! All women want a guy who has a big penis! They say size doesn't matter not to make the guy feel better about them self but to take the blame away from them!! Because they as Women are to blame!! And they know it! Nobody talks about what if a guy wants a big penis JUST BECAUSE HE WANTS ONE! Nothing to do with satisfying a women but just because he is entitled to have one! Imagine if people was to look closely at why boys have small penises the attention would then turn to women and eventually the decision would be only certain women could give birth or be allowed to make children women would not accept that! Imagine going up to a pregnant women and screening her, and then say to her your son is going to be short and that he wall have small penis and the decision from the government was you will forced into having an abortion! What do you think would happen! Women would then lose there power to have children any time they wanted! I have to great friends who I miss dearly that have committed suicide over their size penis! One of them killed himself in front of his mother stabbed himself in the neck he was 14! My other friend slit his mother's throat and shot himself in the head in front of her! So she was just about alive enough to see him die he was 20! So you women take responsibility and stop hiding take the blame and change the way son's brothers and fathers are brought into this world! Stop blaming God! You did this nobody else! It's taking to people to make a child but it only takes one (women) to decide whether that child lives or dies! Choose the right men to have children with! Look at your genetics and ask yourself if you have the right blood the ingredient to bring a child into this world. You are bringing people into this world to live a life of misery just so that you know what pregnancy is like! Screen our children before they are born for heaven sake!!!! Oh if you are wandering I am a female!
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Member says:Posted: 03 Dec 09
Woman's who says that size matters are CHEATERS!!!! That is a FACT!
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Bellara says:Posted: 21 Nov 09
The research is obviously one of those research findings that are VALID but not RELIABLE. So in other words? It's incorrect! Mother's exposure to chemical has a lot to do with child development but genital development? That is yet to happen.
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paganinifan says:Posted: 18 Nov 09
I know this topic thread is old but since I found it and I was recently really put off by a female's profile that mentioned the penis size thing I wanted to put forth something for WOMEN to think about: If women are going to measure the quality of a man by the size of his penis, or how he 'works it' in the bedroom, just imagine that you come down with breast cancer and need your breasts removed, should YOU then be measured by the lack of something for us men to suck on and play with? Big breasts, little breasts, that doesn't matter. But NO breasts. Yeah. I find it very outdated high schoolish of any grown woman to be making an issue over a man's size. It goes to show you're only looking for love with conditions.
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homesteader says:Posted: 05 Nov 09
Still to frame a house with a tack hammer is almost impossible .Hehe
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serenity33 says:Posted: 20 Oct 10
Size doesn't really matter unless you are uneducated and just relying on intercourse.
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serenity33 says:Posted: 21 Oct 10
Penis size itself doesn't matter at all and I have found a really good article that backs this up. It shows definitively that no matter what you penis size is, it doesn't affect the quality of love making. http://pulse.yahoo.com/_KZEOVDJXSJXYOKALZPGXWFYDFQ/blog/articles/205268. So don't go blaming anyone for size if you haven't been educated properly in lovemaking.
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BrownB09 says:Posted: 05 Nov 09
Okay, I thought long and hard before i decided to post this, but what the hey we are all adults!! First thing is in all honesty size does matter to me somewhat!! And ladies I guess itd all come down to width or girth?.......ROFL!!!! Lets keep on keepin on, and keep it real!!! All my sensitive guys out there, if it dont apply, let it fly!! Take care all!!!!
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Luna.Bean. says:Posted: 31 Oct 09
It's funny how this forum gets so many hits and the rest, i.e. interesting and important ones get less appreciation. It's good topic, but kids, the debate is over.
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Shotgun007 says:Posted: 19 Aug 09
Exactly….., Nandi. I have always said the same thing, we hear talks of some men who choose to brag about their penis sizes & even wear their egos on their sleeves claiming 9 or 10” penis sizes etc etc….(Sad)... I'm looking for longevity and a life with my mate and intimacy is all but 1 aspect of it. I think women in general should focus less on the male anatomy as a whole.
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Nandi says:Posted: 03 Aug 09Shotgun007 He He He Personally, I never understood why a woman would want a "big one". The average size for a women is 4 inches deep and a male average is 7 inches, something smaller definitely would not be a problem...Besides, bigger ones cause tearing and scar tissue, which cannot be fixed..So you are stuck with painful spells throughout your life...I say, if it does fit, do not force and I certainly do not want to hurt something I might need for a long while. I am still a growing girl LOL
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Shotgun007 says:Posted: 03 Aug 09
Well providing an answer to the blog question.. Does size matter? or Why is he small.. In my opinion and from experience, absolutely NOT! It depends, are you looking for a quickie or wambam as opposed to real intimacy? My guess is, most are looking for real intimacy. For me size doesn't matter, just give me a beige one and I'm happy (just kidding LOL). Shotgun007
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WHURR says:Posted: 26 Jul 09She must be one of thos 'hot dog down the hallway' women! I knew they would come out of the woodwork. She's looking in the mirror she holding under her crotch as we speak. ECHOOO ECHOOOO ECHOOO...
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sweetroses says:Posted: 25 Jul 09
Hi why should size matter, lets get a life and forget it.
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sweetroses says:Posted: 25 Jul 09
Hi, this comment goes to WHURR, how dare you be so rude, what were you thinking? I guess no one was women or man enough to respond to your nasty little comment. I am truely offended, not every female have booty calls, not because I am answering to your mindless comment do not mean that I am wide or open like Dolly Partons breast fed child mouth(LOL), since you dont have nothing better to do you must or have to be very small like a 1/2 inch wow, I never have a problem with a mans dick size as long as the man know what to do with his penis, it's all about the motion in the ocean, so dont be a jerk if you cant back up your big mouth it's all good. I think females know what they like and what they dont want is a loser trying to pretend to be all that, I like a smart intelligent good man who is self confident, respectful and not worried about his package because God created everyone in his own unique way. Thanks and good luck.
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WHURR says:Posted: 18 Jul 09
To the size queens...maybe its the fact your vagina is too big. Did an overactive sex life stretch you out so having sex with you is like tossing a hotdog down a hallway? You have to give some time between booty calls to tighten that muscle back up. Pushing a kid out every 10 months when the doctor says to wait 6 weeks after birthing ( do the math) is not good either. Always blaming it on the dyck.... dang....just cuz ur stuff looks like one of Dolly Partons breastfed kids's mouth...not our problem!!! Now the ones with the snappy comebacks to this...they the ones!!!
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homesteader says:Posted: 16 Jun 09
Thunder only happens when it's Raining . Sorry , I heard that in a song one time .
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crunja says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Do women prefer quotes in metric or in the English system for lengths?
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HoneyKissed6 says:Posted: 16 May 09
Size matters to me. I can not do too small. I can't feel it and if I'm not satisfied that way, I do fall out of love with that aspect of the relationship and since sex is important to me.... And yes, most women's g-spots are 3 inches in...mine isn't. It further up. Medical anomaly for sure but I'm honest about needing size. I do no like too big though I've had my fair share. Some do not know what do with it and some get so turned on by themselves , they end up hurting you. Average size works well for me. If I had to choose between small or large, I'd go with large. If I had to choose between a great guy with a small package and an asshole with a large package, I wouldn't choose either one. I wouldn't have sex with the smaller guy because I wouldn't be turned on (believe me I tried to get past this on many occasions) and I wouldn't have sex with the asshole because I wouldn't be turned on.
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blackstorm69 says:Posted: 15 May 09To me size does matter, but I try to be openmineded enough if I like the person and he is stronger in other areas of lovemaking then yes I will give him a chance but the chemistry has to be really really great.
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Leavitobeavr says:Posted: 29 Apr 09Most women would say that size doesn't matter until reality hits.I know a guy got devorce for having a small container.Com'on women keep it real size is all you think about.You like to be stuffed and filled up right?I know another guy was trying to be model.He had the looks and syle but not the package. This other beat up in the face guy had nothing going on in his life.Took another mans wife and did whatever he wanted to do to her because he have the thing that swings.Viceverse i wouldn't want a woman putting anything and everything inside her and i'm not just talking about dildoes.Fellows if you found woman thats bigger then your fist.Kiss your ego goodbye. Most women would say they can't find the right guy.Well what are searching for the man or the meat.
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shreksdonkey says:Posted: 27 Apr 09
I fail to see what size has to do with true love. If you're in love you will find a way for good sex,...or not. Many relations don't even have sex on aregular basis. By the way I have never heard of a couple separating because of a small size. I have heard about about a woman being small and the man hurting her every time they had sex. Well i'd rather have a small one than hurting my lady.
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jucyfruit says:Posted: 26 Apr 09ok size to me dont matter as long as he knows how to workk it well.. thats all tha matters a guyy can have a big dick but not know how to work it an the sex will still turn out to be a waste of time.. i mean if a guyy has a baby dick and he is wayy past puberty then yaa thats going to be a problem.. but then again some guys know how to make a women have an orgasm without the use of his dick..all they do is whisper things in her ear.. but if its sayy like 3 or 4 inches then it doesnt matter aslong as the guy knows wat he is doing an he knows how to please a women..
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wooddragon13 says:Posted: 24 Apr 09At the end of the day, it's what you're able to do with it that counts. If you helping your partner get multiple orgasm with it, you're in good. If you're a one directional in and out guy, it doesn't matter how big you are, your not going to hold on to anyone. On that note though, I'm glad I'm not 3".
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homesteader says:Posted: 04 Apr 09
Very Very interesting - Fun also , Emergency Water supplies come in Plastic jugs , as do Gallons of Milk . Hurricanes only hit this part of Texas when they desire , alas more people died Evacuating then did those Being prepared for the storm . We did have fun with no electric power for many days , gotta learn to live with what you got and be Happy . Get married and throw them condoms away . They break .
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canadiangc says:Posted: 09 Feb 09I guess the author of the article should do more research instead of trying to pass of some nonesense about the size of men's penises. A simple search would have provided her with information from condom manufacturers who seel mainly in the 6-6.5inch range (57% of sales). For the ladies who prefer the 8"+, good luck with finding one of the 1.6% of men who buy condoms that size or larger. Whenever I'm asked about the size of my package, I'm honest, I say average and have never measured. Don't know why anyone would measure, unless they are making sure they buy the right size if condom.
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cometdog says:Posted: 24 Jan 09
I worry about the chemicals that we say are safe now. Just thinking back on Freon (used in refrigration). It was said to be safe and great for a multitude of task. Now found to be environmentaly damaging. Or DDT sprayed every where. So what current chemical that is currently the great thing going to be found to be deadly.
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Blaqwhole says:Posted: 08 Jan 09
I don't think the male suicide rate would increase due to the sole reason that women preferred men with larger penises furious. I mean life will deal you a lot worse than a small penis and if you couldn't deal with that then survival of the fittest would dictate that the species is better off without you anyway...second, the male suicide rate is usually approx 4x higher than the female rate because males are more often successful due to the more violent ways (gun shots, hanging, etc...) that males commit suicide...females however make twice as many attempts as males to commit suicide but they are by far less successful due to their less violent nature (poisoning, etc...). Third, although it is a severe insult for a male to hear that his penis is small (mainly because it hurts our pride), even males with this "small penis" attribute are often times more confident and happy with their bodies than females who are very attractive and well shaped...Fourth, look at it this way, by the time she tells you that you have a small penis you probably already slept with her anyway. And fifth, of course every woman would PREFER a well endowed tall man with a large penis, a 6 figure salary, and a mansion on a hill but we have our preferences too. And that is all it is, a preference...not really something to commit suicide over...
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furious says:Posted: 08 Jan 09
you would have to be pretty small..the frikkin g spot is like 2 inches in...surely a guy has that
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furious says:Posted: 08 Jan 09
I will say this...I dont think women really understand what it does to a man when you say he is too small...I can promise you that if the hype were true and size did matter and women were only attracted to men with big cocks then the suicide rate for men would go WAY UP...that is no j/k...men suicide rate is already way higher then women...
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pfhnphily says:Posted: 07 Jan 09Does ANYONE know or understand what the heck 'Diva' is talking about???? Her words don't really make any sense. Maybe she's drunk or maybe it's me . . .
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homesteader says:Posted: 06 Jan 09
small , medium , large Huge and OMG , IT IS NOT THE SIZE BUT THE THOUGHTS THAT COUNT . 009 Bombed Les Bombed
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Shimska says:Posted: 06 Jan 09
I agree with InSide_Out about the reason WHY we tell men size doesn't matter - it's an individual choice and yes, if we tell them it does matter they assume that means big. I happen to have a friend that prefers a smaller size. I dated a smaller man who made up for it with fantastic tongue action! You ladies need to learn how to work what your man offers and you men need to learn how to work what you've got. Glock, I think the shrivel comes from global freezing (LOL).
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HedPEHead says:Posted: 06 Jan 09DAMNIT MA!! Why'd you have to go and sniff baby powder while I was in your womb!! LOOK WHAT YOU'VE DONE TO ME!!! hahahaha 8)
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TRUDYLOVE2 says:Posted: 06 Jan 09FINE UGANDA I CAN SEE WHY U DON'T HAVE IT....LOL..AND BABYGIRL668 (GIRLFRIEND) MY GRAMMAR IS ALL GOOD IT NOT ON ME THAT U DON'T GET IT...LOL...AND THANKS 4 SAYING SIZE DO MATTER BECAUSE U AND I KNOW WE NEED SOMETHING 2 WORK WITH...TO ALL MEN OUT HERE WHO HAVE SMALL DICKS TRY 2 WORK WITH IT WELL THAT IS WHAT U WAS BORN WITH....WELL WELL THE MAN WHO HAVE BIG OR NICE SIZE DICKS GOOD 4 U...WOMEN IF WE JUST GET A DICK THAT WE R HAPPY WITH THEN... WE GOOD...2 PUT IT OUT THERE WE JUST WANT 2 HAVE A GOOD FUCK THAT ALL...
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mosg says:Posted: 05 Jan 09
i say size does'nt count the only thing that counts is the way you are using your equipment and the position you are taking. chaw chaw
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homesteader says:Posted: 05 Jan 09
don't make a difference unless we ain't got it , hehe
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uganda28 says:Posted: 05 Jan 09Trudy, i atleast understand why you need size...lol, offcourse i have it myself but i dont think it matters.
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babygirl668 says:Posted: 05 Jan 09Trudy, lower your voice & brush up on your grammar girlfriend! (LOL) Ugotomega.. It could possibly be how the size conversation/question was visited. I think size matters because women need at least something to work with. However, I would place size after kindness, loyalty, respect, motivation, and a cute face... Take care.. Babygirl668
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TRUDYLOVE2 says:Posted: 05 Jan 09
CMON PEOPLE U KNOW DAMN WELL WOMEN DON'T WANT A SMALL DICK MEN...THEY KNOW THEY WANT 2 FEEL SOMETHING NOT THE TOP OF THE DICK WE WANT 2 FEEL THE HOLD THING U AND I KNOW IT...IF THEIR A WOMEN OUT THEIR AND SAY SIZE DON'T MATTER THEY R A LIER...2 ME IF A MAN TALK ABOUT HOW BIG THEIR DICKS R THAT MEAN THEY HAVE SMALL DICK...SOME...LOL..I HAVE SMALL BIG AND BIG IS IN...IF U KNOW HOW 2 USE IT WHEN MORE POWER 2 U..A MAN WHO WAS READY SMALL I LOOK AND SAY IS THAT IT...LOL..HE SAY YEAH I SAY OOO MY GOD..I GOT DRESS AND LEAVE I CAN'T BECAUSE MY TIME IS IMPORTANT 2 ME...DON'T GET ME WRONG I DON'T WANT A MAN 2 KILL ME BUT U HAVE 2 HAVE SOMETHING THERE...DON'T NEED A MAN WHO HAVE A DICK THAT LOOK LIKE A PUSSY...LOL
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Jimbo_4269 says:Posted: 05 Jan 09
It would not surprise me if this really has merit. I feel we are to well fed on chemicals in our daily diet as well. Just look on any food wrapper! As far as size being important, let's be truthful...Size is important, the size of a man's heart, his wallet and in 3rd place, his penis!!!
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